the mother-daughter dynamic, a talk with my mom [video]

[video available on spotify] i’ve spent the majority of my life soul-searching, and at this point, i think i have a pretty strong sense of self. but there’s always more to discover. so today, i thought i’d take some unreliable personality tests that i found online to learn a little bit more about myself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

29 Touko 58min

[video available on spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is the complicated relationship between romance and friendship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

25 Touko 37min

[video available on spotify] it’s my birthday. i’m 24, which means i’m almost 25. which means my prefrontal cortex is almost done developing. in honor of my 24th birthday, i thought it'd be kind of fun to discuss all of the evidence of my prefrontal cortex nearing its final stages of development. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

22 Touko 52min

[video available on spotify] this past weekend i found myself with a dilemma. i had a lot of work to get done. and then, two of my loved ones asked me to hang out. do i choose to be selfish and get stuff done? or do i neglect my work and spend quality time with my loved ones? this really brought to my attention how challenging it is to choose between selflishness and selflessness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

18 Touko 48min

[video available on spotify] for the last few years, i’ve been trying to quit nicotine. i know it sounds cliche, but it is one of the hardest things i’ve ever done in my life. unfortunately, i’m here today with the story of my relapse. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

15 Touko 31min

[video available on spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is people pleasing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

11 Touko 35min

[video available on spotify] i recently discovered that one of the most significant causes of emotional instability for me is being under the wrong kinds of pressure. i can think of many instances of pressure being beneficial, but the wrong kind of pressure can cause us to crumble. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

8 Touko 44min

[video available on spotify] In honor of the Met Gala tomorrow, I’m sharing my red carpet routine and what it takes for me to get ready for fashion’s biggest night. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

4 Touko 55min