
Attachment Theory w/ Mark Groves - Vault Archives
Welcome to TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES every other Tuesday!!Today we have a fan favourite join the show, fellow podcast host Mark Groves from Create The Love Podcast. He interviews Violet about her life as they discuss attachment styles, relationship, your inner child, self worth, dating, depression, and more!!!Sit back and enjoy because this is one interview you don't want to miss!New episode every Tuesday and Thursday!! Pls rate & subscribe so you never miss an episode again!! :) All episodes will be uploaded to our YouTube channel every Friday.Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Connect with Mark on:InstagramTwitterYouTubeCreate the LoveSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
30 Elo 20221h 20min

Trick Yourself Out Of Low Self Esteem w/ Guy Winch
Sometimes the hardest part about dealing with a breakup, isn’t always the breakup. It’s figuring out how to overcome the feeling of failure and low self esteem that can come shortly after.To wrap up breakup month on Almost Adulting, today we welcome licensed psychologist Guy Winch! Guy is a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives, workplaces, and education systems. He is also the author and co-host of the popular podcast, Dear Therapist. In this episode Violet and Guy give us the hard truth about why we often blame ourselves when a relationship falls apart, how chronic loneliness (backed by science) is detrimental to our wellbeing, and even the types of text message you can send to get the answers you want! Finally, Violet and Guy dive into the age old issue of actions vs. words and what you need to do if you’re stuck in this situation. Besties, emotions are overwhelming, but we can all use some help sometimes. Tune in to this episode for some help we all need.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Dave: If you’re in a pinch and need some extra help, don’t freak out! Download Dave and think of it as a helping hand from Future You! Download the Dave app from the App store right now.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:47 The importance of emotional aid04:35 What happens when people are lonely11:59 Low self esteem 14:19 You alone can’t save a relationship16:03 Why do we feel guilty when a relationship fails?19:54 The first 5 minutes into the date23:22 “You deserve better…”26:00 How can somebody build emotional resilience?27:32 Complaint versus confrontation29:40 Anxiety is not an immediate threat35:05 Different friends fulfill different functions in our life Connect with Guy on:InstagramFacebookLinkedInTwitterWebsiteBooksDear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy WinchGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
25 Elo 202254min

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup
WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Violet is backkkkk babyyy with another short solo brand new Tuesday episode!!On this episode Violet, discusses friendship breakups, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of Violet's that no one knows about but It sure is smelly! She then dives into why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of hers. New episode every Tuesday and Thursday!! Pls rate & subscribe so you never miss an episode again!! :) All episodes will be uploaded to our YouTube channel every Friday.Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
23 Elo 202230min

To The Ride or Die Besties (LIVE SHOW SPECIAL)
The ones who know more about you than your own family, the ones you call in an emergency and know they’re gonna pick up, and the ones that you know no matter what, they have your back for life. In today's special edition episode, Violet takes the stage for the first ever live recording of Almost Adulting. Recording live from The Hollywood Improv, Violet gets real about how she developed true confidence, the power of manifesting, and friendship breakups. Since Violet was joined by all of her besties that came out to see her, she invited some on stage to share their stories about friendship breakups - because nothing brings people together more than talking sh*t about their old friends! Finally, Violet explains the 5 signs that you have a ride or die bestie in your life and how important it is to nourish those relationships even during hard times. Real friends are hard to come by, hold on to them tight Besties! THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Talkspace: http://www.talkspace.com and use code ADULTING to get $100 off your first month! Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction06:42 Are you always this confident?12:57 This is a toxic advice…14:38 My friendship breakup story18:30 We create our own reality22:44 Last year, I liked a boy…32:14 Let’s dive into friendship breakups39:31 “Why do you think bad things keep happening to you?”40:55 Signs of toxic friendship51:00 Signs you have a ride or die bestie56:49 Reasons why friendships can feel like a breakup01:10:01 Another friendship breakup story Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
18 Elo 202253min

Ghosted Horror Stories - Confession Corner
Get in besties, we’re getting ghosted. Welcome to TUESDAY'S CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner is a bi-monthly installment where you guys get to anonymously call VIOLET, and have a chance to be featured on the show!For today's Confession Corner we’re getting GHOSTED. Don’t be shy, it’s happened to the best of us. Today you will hear Violet react and dissect your craziest ghosting stories - but don’t worry she made sure to include her own too and we promise it'll make you feel better about yourself after hearing it LOL Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
16 Elo 202227min

There’s No Fairytale Ending w/ Todd Baratz
It can be a hard pill to swallow, but you can’t also become the person you want to be if you’re stuck in the past. There’s no fairytale or storybook ending if you don’t fix what’s within, but that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone!Today we welcome sex and relationships therapist, Todd Baratz! Todd has devoted his entire life to wellness as he actively works against all formalities, traditions and diagnosis. Together Violet and Todd discuss the importance of intimacy negotiation in a relationship, identifying self sabotaging behaviors, and how to fill emotional voids. The two also deep dive into the myth of being “relationship ready”. The truth is, there’s no such thing. Relational love leads to self love. Besties, sometimes the real breakup you need is with your old patterns and behaviors. Contact Todd and find his online courses here: https://www.toddsbaratz.com/Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:02 What it means to start therapy at 10 years old05:03 “I literally just said your partner has fantasies…”08:07 Couple issues tend to come from personal trauma10:17 Our relationships are emotional14:02 Everybody deals with relationships at different pace15:35 Self-sabotaging18:45 Why are we drawn to emotionally unavailable people22:23 How can you tell if someone is emotionally unavailable?23:25 When should you walk away?25:23 Lies that we hear about relationships27:11 It’s normal to sit with your feelings30:03 How do you deal with uncertainty?32:29 The pressure to succeed with relationships35:39 Where’s the line between feeling and thinking?37:56 Stop blaming people about your feelings46:41 Feeling the victim all the time39:38 Why does language matter so much? 43:47 Self discovery happens, it’s not a rush46:39 Being the victim constantly50:01 Can you still be in a relationship while still working on yourself52:27 Good habits to make yourself feel betterConnect with Todd on:InstagramFacebookTikTokWebsiteYour Diagnonsense PodcastGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
11 Elo 20221h 8min

From Ghosted To Begging U Back
Welcome to another TUESDAY EPISODE!!! A short and sweet episode vault episode to get your week started! We are in the 2'ND WEEK of Breakups/cheating month so figured today we are diving into manifesting and getting ghosted!The first 15 minutes we'll dive into manifesting tips and methods of getting back the life you want with or without your ex while the rest of the episode, we'll briefly dive into why you've been ghosted, how to get him to beg for you back, how to get over it and how to move on.Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast and our YouTube channel so you never miss an episode again!!! and also leave a 5 star review on the podcast app since it really helps :DGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeAdvertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
9 Elo 202233min

You Will Never Be Blessed w/ Kamie Crawford
And sometimes…we just need to hear the cold hard truth. Kidding. But when you only focus on the negative things in life, you don’t realize that that’s all you’re allowing your life to be. We all deserve the most beautiful things in life, and sometimes tough love from your bestie is exactly what you needed to hear.Today we welcome TV host, podcaster, and Sports Illustrated model Kamie Crawford to Almost Adulting! Violet and Kamie, instant besties and Scorpio sisters, start off the conversation by talking brutally honestly about some of their own faults, and even their friends. They discuss how their delivery may not always be the best, but it may just be a Scorpio thing. They also talk in depth about Kamie’s life post her 5-year relationship, how NOT having a rebound after a breakup is a painful part of growing up, the two forms of cheating, and which of them is truly worse than the other. The truth hurts besties, no matter which way you put it.THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Function of Beauty: FunctionofBeauty.com/ADULTING to take your hair quiz and save 25% on your first order! DaveIf you’re in a pinch and need some extra help, don’t freak out! Download Dave and think of it as a helping hand from Future You! Download the Dave app from the App store right now.Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fmWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:48 If you’re arguing with a Scorpio03:59 Something that most people don’t know about you08:15 What is your love language?14:15 Getting too sensitive18:13 Changing yourself to make someone love you22:59 Who’s more jealous in your relationships?27:15 Define cheating32:50 Cheating in marriage36:15 “I remember my first boyfriend…”39:01 Ending a 5-year relationship43:40 The hardest part of a breakup46:42 “I don’t have a problem playing the villain…”51:31 What’s something you'll never put up with again?56:34 Taking accountability for what you did wrong59:57 Unrealistic expectations about finding a partner01:03:18 “You’ve just known him for two days!”01:07:52 Do you still believe in love?Connect with Kamie on:InstagramTwitterFacebookTikTokWebsiteRelationsh*t PodcastCatfish: The TV ShowGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
4 Elo 20221h 19min