Winning a Breakup - Playbook

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:HoneyLove - Get 20% off by going to https://www.honeylove.com/adsulting #honeylovepodCurology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?06:14 They say your hair keeps memories07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip13:32 You create your own reality17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off? Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

10 Loka 202332min

Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think. But wait, there's more! We're exploring the intricate realms of love – from redefining it to dealing with it as parents and beyond. We've got all the wisdom you need on co-parenting, dating again, and even dating in the public eye (oh, the drama!). Plus, you won't want to miss the best and worst love advice and the ultimate secret to attracting better things into your life. So cozy up and let's get deep and real with Violetta and Apryl! Today’s Sponsor:EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com/adulting and entering code 49ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:04 How Violetta met Apryl05:12 You can tell when someone is going to therapy06:46 What’s your definition of love?08:50 How do you deal with your kids?13:56 Forgiving your parents for not knowing any better17:40 Not looking at anyone different18:49 Reflect on your life, sit with yourself, and not play the victim22:01 Have you ever done shadow work?23:19 When you don’t love yourself enough25:26 Always open to learning28:31 Having children is much bigger than us33:18 You have to be real and honest with yourself35:56 How do you successfully co-parent?38:35 How do you start dating again?41:50 It started with an Instagram DM45:58 Best and worst advice about love48:25 Conscious dating when you have kids51:55 Is it difficult to date in the public eye?55:02 Privacy is still important because we’re all human57:27 Do you forgive someone for yourself?01:02:45 Learn how to see yourself first01:07:48 How do you become more kind to yourself?01:09:43 Choose to be a better human to attract better things in life 01:12:57 Three Questions with Apryl JonesConnect with Apryl on:https://www.instagram.com/aprylsjones/ https://twitter.com/aprylsjones https://www.facebook.com/OfficialAprylJones/ https://www.tiktok.com/@apryljonesofficial Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

5 Loka 20231h 19min

Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it! Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter. Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adultingTalkspace - Get $80 off of you first month when you go to https://www.talkspace.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:50 Four steps to love yourself03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy 17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S531:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…34:41 Still following random girls on IG Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

3 Loka 202337min

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee. Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future. Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products free or up to a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to https://curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better lifeGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

28 Syys 202344min

Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do. Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and self-perception.Amidst it all, Lydia's unnervingly straight-faced comfort moment and her declaration that, "You are so much like me," add a sprinkle of intrigue to this entertaining exploration of youthful relationships. Buckle up for a podcast that's as quirky as it is relatable, as we navigate the fascinating world of 20-something love, one eccentric character at a time. Today’s Sponsor:Rocket Money - Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and manage our money the easy way by going to https://www.rocketmoney.com/adulting DoorDash - Get 50% off your first DoorDash order up to a $20 value when you use code ADULTING23, Visit https://www.doordash.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:07 How are these people in their 20s?02:19 Jared - projecting his insecurities about his size04:14 Chris - gives off golden retriever vibes but he thinks people he’s a playboy06:11 Johnie - she feels she needs to chase people for love11:58 JP and Taylor - the love of your life say, “I used to care about looks, but not anymore.”13:38 Lydia is a walking red flag18:43 Uche’s biggest deal breaker is dishonesty19:47 Aaliyah lacks self awareness to take accountability for her cheating22:45 Did Uche want Aaliyah to feel bad so he could drop the ball about Lydia?23:54 When Lydia comforted Aaliyah with a straight face26:14 Lydia: “You are so much like me.” Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

26 Syys 202334min

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!WANT MORE EPISODES? SUBSCRIBE TO MY PREMIUM PODCAST HERE - https://almostadulting.supercast.com/Today’s Sponsor:Amika - Get 20% off of your order when you use www.loveamika.com/adulting. This discount is valid until November 1, 2023.Curology - For discounts visit, www.curology.com/adulting Skims - Free shipping on orders over $75, visit www.skims.comWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:07 There’s a lot people don’t know about me02:16 What’s your go-to during a bad day?03:14 Describe me in one word05:10 What’s something you wish people would ask you more often?07:36 What’s the hardest thing about starting a business?11:21 Sandwich flavors14:16 All about Vanderpump Rules18:42 Watching the show and absolutely have no idea what’s happening19:53 Taken highly out of context21:15 Lesson learned from reality TV24:30 Did compatibility issues cause the divorce?27:47 It’s done and final28:27 When did you realize that the relationship was ending?31:06 Start loving yourself33:32 I just had to go through the pain36:05 How did you get through the breakup?39:10 Put yourself first40:03 Possible to be friends with your ex?41:21 Outpour of love and support from fans42:57 To feel seen, heard, and supported49:06 Rapid questions with Katie Connect with Katie on:https://www.instagram.com/musickillskate/ https://www.tiktok.com/@katiexmaloney Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

21 Syys 20231h 6min

Hey Besties! It's Confession Corner Tuesday, and our OG social media girl Violetta is back with some juicy fan confessions. We got a guy who lied about his job and stopped communicating after they spent a night together and this guy accidentally sh*ting himself while getting a head. Surprise! Surprise! Men never learn. Buckle up, because when it comes to confessions, the drama never ends! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:39 Call #1: This guy I met on Tinder asked if size mattered15:50 Call #2: He sh*t himself while I was giving him a bl*wj*b21:21 Call #3: Dylan, you’re not a serious person about me being your sugar baby Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

19 Syys 202331min

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violetta is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violetta admits life has its ups and downs and it hasn’t been easy, but today she is thankful and you will be too by the end of the episode. Today, Violetta shares FOUR STEPS that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page starting today with this episode! What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:55 Let’s take a moment to be thankful03:44 Low moments are necessary to transform you07:06 Step #1: Ask yourself, “Is this working for me?”10:07 Step #2: It’s all in your head11:06 Step #3: Sit with rejection, be comfortable with it12:50 Step #4: Turn your resentment into your superpower14:35 Correlation between anger and passion to succeed17:43 Your mind will continuously believe what you tell itGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

14 Syys 202323min