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Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING. In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to simple curiosity, that can lead people to make such complex and painful choices. If you've ever been curious about the intricacies of human relationships, the reasons people cheat, and how to spot the signs, this episode is your ultimate guide. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order. What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:05 Signs he is cheating on you11:36 Why do people cheat?16:25 What happens when you cheat on someone?22:54 Don’t blame the other woman24:16 Why does the people who hurt us mean the most to us?Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

2 Marras 202331min

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat. But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use promo code ADULTINGShopify - Shopify is your no-excuse business partner. Sell without code or design. Just bring your best ideas and Shopify will help you open up a shop. Visit https://www.shopify.com/ What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyerGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

31 Loka 202328min

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life. Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes! Today’s Sponsor:Quince - Get affordable luxury with Quince! Go to https://www.quince.com/adulting for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?27:53 You have to make you love yourself31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure47:51 The benefits of active journaling56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life Connect with Tara on:https://www.taraschuster.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taraschuster https://www.tiktok.com/@taraschuster https://twitter.com/taraschustar Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

26 Loka 20231h 11min

Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!.Today’s Sponsor:Clean Simple Eats - Visit https://cleansimpleeats.com/ and use code ADULTING at checkout for 20% off your first order.What to Listen For:00:00 Intro00:34 It’s just that type of week02:55 Let me tell you about my week05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months 07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myselfGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

24 Loka 202332min

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace. Today’s Sponsor:Curology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adultingEveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.49 per meal by going to https://www.everyplate.com and enter the code 49ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you02:45 Something most people don’t know about you04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl10:20 The Bhagavad Gita12:13 Best advice from your dad15:25 Holding onto resentment17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?20:26 When you feel invisible24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner32:37 Having a supportive partner35:58 We all function in our own pace in life 39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?47:27 How do you connect better to others?50:28 What's your definition of love? 54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out Connect with Radhi on:https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ .https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia JoyFull: Cook Effortlessly, Eat Freely, Live Radiantly (A Cookbook)Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

19 Loka 20231h 15min

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen! If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsors:Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off of your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code ADULTING at LumePodcast.com! What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:10 Uche is an energy vampire03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie30:55 No one respects people who bring people downGet more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

17 Loka 202333min

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too! Today’s Sponsor:Nutrafol - Find out why over 4,000 healthcare professionals recommend Nutrafol for healthier hair. Visit https://nutrafol.com/ and use the promo code ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?03:34 Part of Key Glock music video05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents11:09 Zodiac signs13:29 How did the influencer life started15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions31:41 Everyone is depressed36:15 He gave me STI41:51 It’s over, I’m done…43:26 I always know what I want to do45:43 Imposter syndrome46:11 What it feels not to have social cues49:46 Craziest job you had54:54 Getting a lot of hate58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about01:09:20 I like your teeth!Connect with Amanda on:https://www.youtube.com/@amandamccants5381 https://www.instagram.com/amandamccants https://www.tiktok.com/@amandamccants Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

12 Loka 20231h 12min

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way. If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!Today’s Sponsor:HoneyLove - Get 20% off by going to https://www.honeylove.com/adsulting #honeylovepodCurology - Get up to 6 skincare products for FREE or up top a $52 value with free shipping, and a no-cost consultation with a licensed dermatology provider when you go to www.curology.com/adulting What to Listen For:00:00 Intro02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?06:14 They say your hair keeps memories07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip13:32 You create your own reality17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off? Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

10 Loka 202332min