826: You Must Come First

826: You Must Come First

First doesn’t mean most, but it is a relevant sequence. Here is a simple and easy analogy that you will get, but it will be an effort to truly...get. Before a busy week of caring for your family and running them around everywhere, you fill up your car with gas. I bet you don’t drive until you run out and end up stranded with your family, right? And you don’t get out and push and have one of the kids steer for a few days, right. You get gas before you are empty, possibly every week or more. You also change the oil, put washer fluid in, get new brakes and tires and more. What about yourself? We often don’t treat ourselves with the wisdom and necessity of our car. We run ourselves to empty and spend untold days, weeks, months, maybe years, running on empty. Slow and sluggish or hectic and frantic, and the people we care about are not getting the best ride. It’s a cultural error. In this episode I play a clip from Zig Ziglar where he talks about balance and having us look at where we are out of balance. I then posted this question to the Ziglar audience; Right now, which area below gets most of your focus and interest, and which gets the least? 1 Health & Wellness 2 Relationships 3 Mental 4 Finances 5 Spiritual 6 Career 7 Personal Tom Ziglar and I talked through the responses. You’ll be interested to hear where people said they were giving the most focus, and this wasn’t where they thought they should be giving more and less focus, but where they actually are. The punchline I’ve made obvious though, the place people most cited giving the least focus to was, themselves. Their own personal care. So of course Tom and I address this in the show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jaksot(1670)

Self Worth - If He Can Find It So Can All Of Us w/ Peter Mutabazi

Self Worth - If He Can Find It So Can All Of Us w/ Peter Mutabazi

Sometimes a story comes along that challenges my perspectives at a core level. As a father, I took great responsibility in instilling self-worth into my children. And, I still had kids who struggled w...

30 Tammi 1h 13min

Who You Are Aside From What You Do & What You Produce w/ Wellbeing Expert Jen Fisher

Who You Are Aside From What You Do & What You Produce w/ Wellbeing Expert Jen Fisher

This episode is a dive into the awakening of self-awareness and a connection to what really matters in your life. This has been my journey over the past few years as I've unraveled my identity from wh...

26 Tammi 1h 9min

How To Have Your Own Cause Instead Of Merely Romanticizing The Causes Of Others w/ Renowned Humanitarian Lynne Twist

How To Have Your Own Cause Instead Of Merely Romanticizing The Causes Of Others w/ Renowned Humanitarian Lynne Twist

We are a world that devours stories. Most people tune in every night to be taken in by the stories others are living or they have created, and the vast majority of these stories are centered about a g...

23 Tammi 1h 5min

In This Age Of Distrust It Seems We Do Not Trust Ourselves - This Is Where To Start w/ Behavioral Researcher Shadé Zahrai

In This Age Of Distrust It Seems We Do Not Trust Ourselves - This Is Where To Start w/ Behavioral Researcher Shadé Zahrai

I feel we are in an age of trust. A desire for trust, and a lot of distrust. Right now you are listening to this podcast. Outside of podcasts that are news or entertainment, I see people tuning in to ...

19 Tammi 1h 48min

Reveal & Mitigate Your Codendency w/ The Legendary Melody Beattie

Reveal & Mitigate Your Codendency w/ The Legendary Melody Beattie

In the world of self-help and psychology there are people who have made certain topics a household term. Gary Chapman made love languages famous. Henry Cloud is the grandfather of boundaries. Eckhart ...

16 Tammi 57min

How To Better Navigate Unexpected & Undesired Change w/ Cognitive Scientist Maya Shankar

How To Better Navigate Unexpected & Undesired Change w/ Cognitive Scientist Maya Shankar

I experience our culture growing more and more fearful of unexpected and undesired change. If you were to look back on your life and make a list of all the unexpected and undesired changes you have ex...

12 Tammi 57min

Discover The Work Activities You Will Be Most Fulfilled In & Drained From w/ Biz Management Expert Patrick Lencioni

Discover The Work Activities You Will Be Most Fulfilled In & Drained From w/ Biz Management Expert Patrick Lencioni

Let’s say we are going to build a house. Think of all the roles and activities there are to fulfill. Designing the home. Clearing the land and building a foundation. Building the home, which includes ...

9 Tammi 1h 30min

How Are We "Dimming" Our Lives & How To Illuminate Our Life Experience w/ Cecily Mak

How Are We "Dimming" Our Lives & How To Illuminate Our Life Experience w/ Cecily Mak

On my own journey of connecting with myself and everything else, I find everything to seem richer and clearer and just more fulfilling. The base level pleasures of life don't satisfy as much. So when ...

5 Tammi 1h 4min

Suosittua kategoriassa Koulutus

rss-murhan-anatomia
psykopodiaa-podcast
voi-hyvin-meditaatiot-2
adhd-podi
psykologia
rss-tietoinen-yhteys-podcast-2
rss-valo-minussa-2
rss-rahamania
rss-niinku-asia-on
kesken
rss-liian-kuuma-peruna
rss-arkea-ja-aurinkoa-podcast-espanjasta
rss-vapaudu-voimaasi
rahapuhetta
dear-ladies
rss-uskonto-on-tylsaa
rss-narsisti
rss-hereilla
koodikahvit
aamukahvilla