Eric Barker: Success and Happiness

Eric Barker: Success and Happiness

This week we talk to Eric Barker Eric is a thought leader in the field of success. His humorous but practical blog, Barking up the Wrong Tree, presents science-based answers and expert insight on success in life. Over 270,000 people subscribe to his weekly email update and his content is syndicated by Time, The Week, and Business Insider. He has been featured in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Financial Times, and he was a columnist for Wired. With a writing career spanning over twenty years, Eric is also a sought-after speaker and interview subject and has been invited to speak at MIT, West Point, NPR affiliates, and on morning television. His first book, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong is available now. In This Interview, Eric Barker and I Discuss... His book, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong How he defines success Achievement, Happiness, Significance, Legacy The dangers of only using one metric for happiness How money is a lever to something else that makes you happy rather than the thing that makes you happy in and of itself There's no finish line in the quest of what makes me feel good We must decide what is "enough" New and novel make our brains happy We must decide what really is going to make us happy in the long run Turning what we do in our lives into games can be helpful in increasing our persistence and grit Games have these attributes: Winnable, Novelty, Goals, Instantaneous Feedback A feeling of progress and meaningful work keeps us engaged Challenging yourself in a familiar task True burnout is when you start to feel pessimistic about your job so you withdraw and then you get poor feedback so you finally disengage Autonomy, Mastery and Purpose A change is as good as a rest That we are telling ourselves stories about what's has meaning and what doesn't How telling your children about their lineage will increase the likelihood they stay away from drugs, stay in school etc Therapy as editing the story we're telling about our lives Cognitive reappraisal The role of positive self-talk I can do it vs I can't take this anymore If you break your arm you wouldn't say "I am broken" you'd say "My arm is broken" Listening to our thoughts from a distance and asking "is this useful?" to be more mindful about what thoughts we identify with We don't choose what makes us happy, we choose what's easy The role of a plan How anticipation is happiness Please Support The Show with a Donation m is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery and love. The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred and fear. The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says, “Grandfather, which one wins?” The grandfather quietly replies, the one you feed The Tale of Two Wolves is often attributed to the Cherokee indians but there seems to be no real proof of this. It has also been attributed to evangelical preacher Billy Graham and Irish Playwright George Bernard Shaw. It appears no one knows for sure but this does not diminish the power of the parable. This parable goes by many names including: The Tale of Two Wolves The Parable of the Two Wolves Two Wolves Which Wolf Do You Feed Which Wolf are You Feeding Which Wolf Will You Feed It also often features different animals, mainly two dogs.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Embrace the Mystery of the Human Spirit with Parker Palmer

How to Embrace the Mystery of the Human Spirit with Parker Palmer

In this episode, Parker Palmer explores ways to embrace the mystery of the human spirit as he shares his profound insights on embracing wholeness. He discusses the importance of nurturing positive qualities within ourselves and the responsibility we have in shaping our micro-environments. He also emphasizes the powerful impact of finding genuine connections and supportive people in your life. Parker’s journey to the depths of depression and the valuable role of authentic friendships during those tough times will leave you feeling inspired. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace personal development and authenticity to unlock your full potential Experience the transformative power of meaningful relationships in your life Discover the impact of genuine connections and support on your mental well-being Learn how to navigate mental health struggles with grace and resilience Nurture the positive qualities with ourselves and what we bring to the world To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Understand Yourself and Others Better with Anne Bogel

How to Understand Yourself and Others Better with Anne Bogel

In this episode, Anne Bogel uncovers some important truths about the field of personality analysis and self-awareness. She shares how viewing things through the lens of personality can help to understand yourself and others better. This conversation explores the impacts of personality traits on individual behavior and decision making and focuses on how leveraging these traits can lead to positive behavior change. In this episode, you will be able to: Unlock your potential with personalized growth strategies Discover the power of understanding your personality traits Embrace the importance of self-awareness and acceptance for positive change Gain valuable insights and leverage the Enneagram for behavioral growth Learn how to set achievable goals for continuous progress in your personal growth journey To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Recover the Person You Were Meant to Be with Paul Churchill

How to Recover the Person You Were Meant to Be with Paul Churchill

In this episode, Paul Churchill shares his personal journey to sobriety as he learned to recognize and address his struggles with alcohol addiction. He delves into the complexities of moderation versus abstinence, highlighting the challenges and failures he encountered along the way. Paul also emphasizes the importance of seeking help and support on the journey to recover the person you were meant to be. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the power of mindset in achieving sobriety and transforming your life Discover the crucial role of community support in overcoming alcohol addiction Explore the impact of labels and identities in your recovery journey Learn the importance of seeking help and support on your sobriety path. Uncover valuable insights into alcohol addiction and recovery that foster self-awareness and inspire positive change To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Master Internal Triggers and Regain Control of Your Attention with Nir Eyal

How to Master Internal Triggers and Regain Control of Your Attention with Nir Eyal

In this episode, Nir Eyal dives deep into how we can learn to master internal triggers and regain Control of your attention. Nir explains how the underlying motivation behind every action is the desire to escape discomfort. Learning to distinguish between traction and distraction is a powerful first step in overcoming the universal struggle of staying focused in a world full of distractions. You’ll find many new insights and discover several practical strategies to keep your attention on where it matters in this conversation! In this episode, you will be able to: Master time management and boost productivity with proven strategies Learn to identify and master internal triggers for improved focus and concentration Discover the importance of intentional planning for achieving success in all areas of your life Overcome distractions and cultivate a proactive mindset for enhanced performance Implement effective strategies for staying focused and on track daily, leading to greater accomplishments and satisfaction To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Be Enough as You Are with Scott Stabile

How to Be Enough as You Are with Scott Stabile

Scott Stabile’s journey towards self-acceptance and self-love began with a simple yet powerful realization. He learned to acknowledge the small actions in his daily life that reflected self-care and love. This awareness and acknowledgement of these moments of self-love allowed him to shift his mindset and energy towards self-compassion. Scott’s shares the importance of recognizing and appreciating the seemingly mundane acts of self-care, which ultimately lay the foundation for fostering a deep sense of self-acceptance and love. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace self-compassion and acceptance to transform your mindset and behavior Navigate the difficult emotions of envy and jealousy to unlock your personal growth potential Face difficult conversations that can lead to creating deeper connections Cultivate self-love and authenticity to live a more fulfilling life Manage overwhelming thoughts and emotions to find inner peace and clarity To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Power of Practicing Joy and Finding Community with Radha Agrawal

The Power of Practicing Joy and Finding Community with Radha Agrawal

In this episode, Radha Agrawal explains the transformative power of finding joy and community in our lives. She shares practical strategies for increasing joy, such as integrating movement and dance into daily routines and finding activities that bring joy. You’ll also discover the significance of collective joy and how finding connections through community can be so transformative. In this episode, you will be able to: Implement practical strategies to increase joy and overall happiness Explore the transformative power of community and connection Learn how collective joy raises vibrations and enhances well-being Discover how belonging through various avenues enriches life experiences Understand the detrimental effects of isolation and loneliness To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Uncovering the Truth About People Pleasing with Dr. Aziz Gazipura

Uncovering the Truth About People Pleasing with Dr. Aziz Gazipura

In this episode, Dr. Aziz Gazipura shares how we can begin uncovering the truth about people-pleasing behaviors. He explains the difference between kindness and niceness and why it’s important to understand the distinction between them.  You’ll also discover ways to embrace the power of compassionate communication for a better relationship with yourself and others. In this episode, you will be able to: Unleash your potential and boost self-confidence Differentiate between niceness and true kindness Embrace authenticity and express your true self Discover the power of inner wisdom over external validation Harness the mind’s power to take intentional action To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Find Your Way to Healing, Hope, and Peace with Seth Gillihan

How to Find Your Way to Healing, Hope, and Peace with Seth Gillihan

Seth Gillihan, a renowned clinical psychologist and author, offers a fresh take on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Drawing from his personal journey of overcoming health challenges and embracing mindfulness, Seth explains how to find your way to healing, hope, and peace. Through his candidness about his own struggles, he provides valuable insights to life's common challenges. His work emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and acceptance, offering guidance and a path forward for navigating the complexities of lifeIn this episode, you will be able to: Embrace uncertainty to unlock new opportunities for happiness Reduce suffering through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and reclaim peace of mind Shift thoughts and actions with mindfulness Take effective action by embracing the “Think, Act, Be” approach Integrate mindfulness into everyday life for enhanced well-being and peace To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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