189. 5 ways to stop comparing yourself to others

189. 5 ways to stop comparing yourself to others

Social comparison is the thief of joy - it will make us question everything that we have, doubt our own abilities, steal our sense of gratitude and peace. It also sometimes feels impossible to escape, especially in our 20s when we look to others for confirmation that we are doing something right. In today's episode we break down the 5 rules you need to stop comparing yourself to others and embrace the benefits of healthy social comparison, this includes:

  1. Don't unfollow, don't suppress, recognise and expand
  2. Keep your judgements realistic
  3. Do things for YOU first
  4. Water your own grass
  5. Comparison as a motivator

Listen now to learn how you can control your urge to compare yourself to others!

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459. I'm so tired of being ambitious

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458. Can embracing stress actually help us?

458. Can embracing stress actually help us?

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457. The psychology of 'false' memories

457. The psychology of 'false' memories

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456. Why does feeling sad sometimes feel so good?

456. Why does feeling sad sometimes feel so good?

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455. Why does time start flying in our 20s?

455. Why does time start flying in our 20s?

It’s a known fact that time moves faster as we get older, but what does this really mean, and can we slow it down? In this episode, we’re going to try to make sense of why flies as we enter our 20s - ...

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454. The oedipus complex

454. The oedipus complex

The Oedipus complex is one of Freud’s most renowned and shocking ideas. In this episode, we dive into the origins of the theory and whether anything really remains once its gendered assumptions and co...

6 Syys 31min

453. 7 facts you need to know about your brain

453. 7 facts you need to know about your brain

There are a surprising number of myths and misconceptions about the brain, particularly with regards to its development in our 20s. In this episode, we unpack a number of surprising facts and studies ...

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