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What are legacy burdens?These are ingrained parts of us that involve extreme beliefs and emotions coming from traumatic experiences inherited from family or other people.This is mostly experienced by people in marginalized groups. And unpacking them takes courage, acknowledgment, and a safe space to open up.Listen as Dr. Richard Schwartz and Deran Young share their expertise and experiences in navigating through intergenerational trauma and un-learning past beliefs.▶️Unpacking Legacy Burdens through Collective Spaces with Deran Young & Dr. Richard SchwartzKey Points To Discover:✔️ Your trauma isn’t your identity. When your pained inner child starts to hijack your emotions, it’s important to separate it and allow your higher self to take over. “That one part of us doesn’t have to dominate our life,” Deran Young says.✔️Foster a culture of healing in shared spaces. While some are far in their journey of inner work, others still need an extra boost. What are the rules in the communal space? How do we respect each other? How do we honor our differences and similarities? It’s important for all to feel a sense of comfort and belonging when it’s time to unpack trauma.✔️ Identify your “exiles”. These vulnerable parts greatly impacted by trauma are called “exiles” – our spaces for creativity and desire that were hurt and are pushed away. This makes us feel like we’ve moved on. But in reality, these “exiles” still have an underground influence over our decisions and overall worldview.✔️ The best healing happens in collective spaces. It’s normal to feel alone when grappling with deep trauma. This is why Deran Young recommends looking for groups where you can share your experience and feel a sense of community. This is where people can start to acknowledge their trauma and speak more compassionately to themselves.✔️ Everyone deserves access to healing. Economically marginalized places may not have access to the tools needed to treat inner wounds. Forms of psychedelic-assisted therapy – trauma healing using natural resources from the land – have existed for generations. Each person in the world has the right to utilize it for their improvement.✔️Bring your exiled parts back home and reconnect. Dr. Richard Schwartz emphasizes that we shouldn’t disconnect these traumatized parts of ourselves, but rather recognize and acknowledge their presence for healing to take place.---------------Dr. Richard Schwartz began his career as a systemic family therapist and an academic. Grounded in systems thinking, Dr. Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed that there were systemic patterns to the way they were organized across clients. He also found that when the clients’ parts felt safe and were allowed to relax, the clients would spontaneously experience the qualities of confidence, openness, and compassion that Dr. Schwartz came to call the Self. He found that when in that state of Self, clients would know how to heal their parts.A featured speaker for national professional organizations, Dr. Schwartz has published many books and over fifty articles about IFS.---------------Deran Young, LCSW, MPA, has served in the US Air Force for over sixteen years. She is a world traveler and has visited over thirty-two countries and provided counseling services in three different nations in Europe and Africa. Her clinical training and experiences have primarily focused on trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, child abuse, and domestic violence.Deran is the founder and CEO of Black Therapists Rock (BTR), an organization

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Are you brave enough to go beyond the threshold of conventional understanding? Would you be willing to go deeper into the unseen territory of humanity? Or do you just have burning questions about the meaning of life events?You’re in the right place. The Point of Relation is where you need to be to reach your contemplative perspective and uncover the layers of human existence.Tune in to learn more 🎬 watch the full episode of Point of Relation — Welcome to Point of RelationWhat You Will Discover: ✔️ Life is a constant process of finding out, like data streaming. It involves downloading information and processing it at the same time. Tapping into this ability leads us to the sweet spot of maturity. We start to relate every moment in our daily lives to our intelligence and compassion.✔️ Be inspired by special guests. This is your chance to hop into this meaningful space. Here, we get intimate with speakers of various expertise to dissect our common struggles and pressing life issues and discover answers to our existential curiosities.✔️ Answer life’s toughest questions. In difficult situations, distancing ourselves becomes our first move because we lack the skills to navigate through them. Let go of the fear of uncertainty. It’s time to walk closer to the drumbeat of life and discover the reality of our own becoming.✔️ We have the power to impact and co-design our world. Life has never been a walk in the park. Find out your true identity and shape amazing moments as you contribute to the nourishment of others. Be at the edge where life is most exciting.✔️ The point of relation is the alchemy of inspiration. Let’s create a space where we can work to address the current challenges of our world and the big wounds of our shared past. Ignite conversations where sparks fly, and enter into a field of resonance with others.✔️ Cultivate the process of inquiry. With contemplative and creative inquiry, we can deeply feel and think precisely with discernment and clarity. Learning isn’t simply reading about a subject. It also involves connecting ourselves to the knowledge that we’re absorbing.Sign up for updates by visiting our website: pointofrelationpodcast.com.Mentioned in this episode:Pulling the Thread Ad

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We are incredibly excited to launch our new podcast – 𝐏𝐎𝐈𝐍𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍. In these episodes, Global Healing Facilitator Thomas Huebl aims to explore the ancient and contemporary topics melding in the zeitgeist of our time and find the sweet spot of our relational experience. ✴ Here is a space we behold and can bravely explore the boundaries of that which we already know. ✴ Here is where we can learn more about how our lives intersect with the future and observe the convergence of the conscious and unconscious realms. ✴ Here is where we enter an expanded territory coming into a place of freshness, innovation, and inspiration.By doing this together, through the episodes of this podcast, we can find a greater understanding of life and take away learning that we may not have even known we wanted or needed. Ultimately, Thomas aims to leave us each feeling uplifted, energized, connected, and creative.🎙️ https://pointofrelationpodcast.com/ #Transformation #Abundance #Scarcity————————————————————————————————Thomas Hübl is a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator whose lifelong work integrates the core insights of the great wisdom traditions with the discoveries of science. The focus of his work is collective trauma and global healing. Webpage: https://thomashuebl.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Thomas.Huebl.SanghaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thomashuebl/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thomashuebl/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/thomashueblTwitter: https://twitter.com/thomasHuebl "Healing Collective Trauma" is an award winning book by Thomas, published in five languages. https://www.collectivetraumabook.comMentioned in this episode:Pulling the Thread Ad

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