Processing Change in M/s
One might think, from the outside looking in, that processing change in an M/s dynamic is always difficult for those who have given up personal autonomy and transferred authority to a Master or Mistre...
8 Tammi 202310min
Origin of RACK: Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink
Today we present Gary Swift's essay on why he coined the motto RACK in order to update SSC's Safe, Sane and Consensual. Swift says, "Nothing's perfectly safe. Crossing the street isn't perfectly safe....
7 Tammi 20239min
One Twue Way
When we educate about some topics we always get someone who accuses us of being a "one twue way" person or podcast. This is something called the invincible ignorance fallacy where the person in making...
6 Tammi 20239min
Making Rules and Giving Orders
Before you get to a contract for a scene or in a relationship dynamic it is important to understand how to make Rules and how to give Orders. The entire concept of the D/s dynamic is a relationship bu...
5 Tammi 202313min
Our Goal for 2023
Just a brief word about our day off and our goal for the new year. Thanks for listening!
3 Tammi 20232min
Sex Toys For Trans Folk
While all toys are for trans folks (because anyone can use any toy with themselves and others), there are some toys that are specifically great for trans folks: specifically, toys that are gender-affi...
2 Tammi 202319min
Kink Checklist
A kink checklist is usually suitable for scene play and for very new or short-term relationships. For a longer-term relationship that involves a dynamic it's a good idea that all persons involved know...
1 Tammi 20239min
New Year's Resolutions - Revisited
Happy New Year 2023 from BDSM United Podcast!! Here is an episode I recorded a few weeks ago on this relevant topic of BDSM and Kink resolutions and setting goals.
1 Tammi 202311min
