#024: The Trauma of Infidelity with Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman

#024: The Trauma of Infidelity with Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman

Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman is one of the world’s most preeminent relationship researchers. Along with her husband Dr. John Gottman, they run the Gottman Institute, who have conducted many of the world’s most extensive studies on marital stability. This week we delve straight into trauma, including Dr. Gottman’s previous trauma work, the trauma of infidelity, and the Gottman therapy related to this trauma. Lastly, we discuss their latest book - Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. What is it that makes a good relationship and how do good relationships benefit us? Podcast Highlights: 5mins - Julie’s background in trauma research and her journey to the Gottman Institute. 14mins - Trauma, what is it? What does it do to us? What does it feel like? 21mins - The healing power of connection. 25mins - The Gottman’s couples conflict resolution approach - what questions do you need to ask your partner? 32mins - Cheating, infidelity and the trauma in betrayal. 36mins - Therapy for infidelity, the three-stage process. 41mins - What often leads to infidelity? 50mins - Eight Dates, the Gottman’s newest book on dating and relationships in their initial phases. Podcast Details: The Gottman Institute Eight Dates - Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love The Gottman Institute Instagram Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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#492: Stop Negotiating With Future You

#492: Stop Negotiating With Future You

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#491: Curiosity Is the Antidote to Division: Monica Guzman

#491: Curiosity Is the Antidote to Division: Monica Guzman

In this episode Mark sits down with author and journalist Monica Guzman for a deeply necessary conversation about curiosity, fear, and what it will actually take to heal our fractured culture. Togethe...

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#490: Why Presence Disappears the Moment Your Phone Appears

#490: Why Presence Disappears the Moment Your Phone Appears

In this episode I share a revelation about our relationship with technology that completely reframes why your phone feels so overwhelming—and it has nothing to do with willpower or “addiction.” I unpa...

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#489: Microdosing Change: How Small Choices Can Shift Your Entire Life

#489: Microdosing Change: How Small Choices Can Shift Your Entire Life

In this solo episode, I drop in on what it really means to be powerful — not in the performative way we’ve been taught, but in the deeply embodied, self-honoring way that your soul has been nudging yo...

8 Joulu 202511min

#488: The Invisible Thing That’s Wearing You Out: Anjan Katta

#488: The Invisible Thing That’s Wearing You Out: Anjan Katta

In this episode Mark sits down with Anjan Katta, the creator of the Daylight Computer, for a conversation that will completely shift how you see your relationship with technology. Together they unpack...

1 Joulu 202546min

#487: The Power of Ritual & Congruence

#487: The Power of Ritual & Congruence

In this episode I explore the uncomfortable but necessary work of becoming congruent with who you truly are—because the gap between your truth and your behavior is where anxiety, shame, and self-betra...

27 Marras 202521min

#486: The 6 Stages Of Relationships: Thais Gibson

#486: The 6 Stages Of Relationships: Thais Gibson

In this episode Mark welcomes relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down the six stages of relationships—from Dating and Honeymoon to Power Struggle, Rhythm, Devotion, and the Everlasting stage—an...

24 Marras 20251h 14min

#485: Change Yourself, Change the World

#485: Change Yourself, Change the World

(Episode Re-release) I’ve learned so much on this journey, especially the importance of consistency and speaking my truth, even when it’s challenging. So in this solo episode, I invite you to embrace ...

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