Ep. 18: New Things to Try in Bed, What to Do If Your Bits Don’t Fit, and Dealing with an Obnoxious Partner

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:

1. My partner and I have been together for 6 years and haven't tried anything new in a while. You say things like ‘spice things up a bit’ - by doing what though? Can you spell out exactly what you mean by that and give some practical examples?
2. My husband’s penis is on the large side...not so much length as girth. Sex is only comfortable in a couple of positions. Despite using lashings of lube anything other than side by side or missionary just doesn’t seem to work. We’ve been together decades and I know my husband is keen to try more positions but I’m reluctant. Any ideas?
3. I'm experiencing problems having penetrative sex because of the menopause. My husband is complaining about the lack of intimacy, understandably. What he doesn't seem to get is that I am extremely turned off by the person he has become. He sits and burps really loudly all the time - even when we are out and about walking down the street. He's also become very racist and xenophobic which I am finding totally distressing. When I try to talk to him about it, he just ignores me and says he is who he is and I either like it or lump it. Why would I want to get intimate with such a man?

And offers her sex tip of the week!

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