S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?

S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I feel like your inbox for this podcast is full of questions like mine. I’ve been married for 26 years, and our sex life quietly died about 10 years ago. I’ve been listening to you both and I know this is normal. What I want to find out is if my wife misses our sex, or if she is happy with not having it? We’re best friends and still sleep naked, we just never initiate sex. We’ve never talked about sex before, even though we both enjoyed it in the past. How do I start the conversation after all this time?


2) I’m a 36-year-old man and have just gone through a particularly nasty breakup with my girlfriend of 10 years. I’m not interested in having another relationship for a LONG time, if ever, but I do miss sex. I have a group of close friends, and one of them has intimated she’d be up for a friends-with-benefits arrangement. Seems like a good idea to me. What do you think?


3) I hope you can help me because I think I must be a terrible lover. My long-term boyfriend just broke-up with me, and the main reason why was that he didn’t enjoy having sex with me. He said I never once initiated sex and didn’t ever seem to enjoy it. He knows I don’t have much experience and am naturally shy, but said there was ‘lots of other stuff’ as well (which he didn’t elaborate on). It's stripped me of what little confidence I did have. How do you tell if you’re good in bed? What do I have to do to become good in bed?


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S15 Ep. 2: Late Bloomers, Sex Toys for Him, and Sex on Camera

S15 Ep. 2: Late Bloomers, Sex Toys for Him, and Sex on Camera

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m concerned about my daughter. She’s a virgin at 24. Once upon a time, a parent’s fear was teenage pregnancy. I’m worrie...

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S15 Ep. 1: Role-play, Am I Being Squeamish, and Meddling Friends

S15 Ep. 1: Role-play, Am I Being Squeamish, and Meddling Friends

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Can you explain what role-playing games are? What would you recommend for guys, so it doesn’t come off as weird when I sug...

19 Marras 202518min

S14 Ep. 10: What Abstinence Does to Our Body and Mind, My Husband Left Me for a Younger Woman, and What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?

S14 Ep. 10: What Abstinence Does to Our Body and Mind, My Husband Left Me for a Younger Woman, and What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband left me for a much younger woman. It happened two months ago, so the shock is wearing off, but I have no clue h...

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S14 Ep. 9: Dildos, PE (Premature Ejaculation), and Threesomes

S14 Ep. 9: Dildos, PE (Premature Ejaculation), and Threesomes

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) A simple question for you: what do people use dildos for? I get why a vibrator is appealing, but why would a couple need o...

8 Loka 202523min

S14 Ep. 8: I Don't Want Him to Leave His Wife, Why Has He Stopped Initiating, and Can He Watch 'A Little Bit' of Porn if He Was Addicted?

S14 Ep. 8: I Don't Want Him to Leave His Wife, Why Has He Stopped Initiating, and Can He Watch 'A Little Bit' of Porn if He Was Addicted?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been single for a few years and was desperate for sex, so started an affair with a friend of a friend. I knew he was ...

1 Loka 202522min

S14 Ep. 7: Orgasm Shots, My Daughter's Ex is Hitting on Me, and I'm Trapped in a Miserable Marriage

S14 Ep. 7: Orgasm Shots, My Daughter's Ex is Hitting on Me, and I'm Trapped in a Miserable Marriage

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) What’s your view on ‘O-shots’? My friend had one after menopause and says it rejuvenated her vagina back to what it was in...

24 Syys 202517min

S14 Ep. 6: Sensitive Clitorises, He's Sexually Obsessed with My Friend, and Is My New Partner a Sex Addict?

S14 Ep. 6: Sensitive Clitorises, He's Sexually Obsessed with My Friend, and Is My New Partner a Sex Addict?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) You’ve talked about penis size and sensitivity, but I haven’t heard you talk about clitoris size in that regard. I used to...

17 Syys 202525min

S14 Ep. 5: He Won't Experiment, Her Orgasm Leaves Me Out, and The Sex is Back—But Is It Here to Stay?

S14 Ep. 5: He Won't Experiment, Her Orgasm Leaves Me Out, and The Sex is Back—But Is It Here to Stay?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My marriage has been sexless for five years—literally, no sex at all. I tried everything to make my wife see how important...

10 Syys 202527min

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