Ep52: Rope Tops Need Love Too - A listener question with Cats-Pajamas, Malaysia
Rope Podcast16 Syys 2019

Ep52: Rope Tops Need Love Too - A listener question with Cats-Pajamas, Malaysia

Cats-Pajamas, who is primarily a rope bottom, runs a munch in Malaysia with her partner, KitKatKen, and came to us with a potentially controversial topic. She’s been thinking about the needs of rope tops and whether in the current climate where there is a great deal of focus on rope bottoms, the needs of rope tops are becoming invisible, and whether we’re truly treating our rope tops as humans rather than rope dispensers. Fox and Mya talk with her about * The consequences of bottoms being passive and the expectation being more focused on tops * How we can use negotiation better to cover the needs of both parties * Whether we should focus more on what the bottom can do for the top, as well as the other way round * Making sure the bottom isn’t passive, but takes responsibility engages with the rope and the top * The load on tops and how bottoms can share this * The challenge of giving feedback versus ‘topping from the bottom’ * Fox’s experience of this as a rope top and the question only one new rope bottom has asked him

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Ep207: Crab Tie - Rope Focus

Ep207: Crab Tie - Rope Focus

One of Fox’s favourite ties for smexy times is the ‘Crab Tie’, so he’s excited to share some of his ideas, tips and experiences in this episode which focuses on the tie. In the episode discover: • T...

25 Elo 202520min

Ep206: Tying outside a marriage -  An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf

Ep206: Tying outside a marriage - An interview with monogamous couple Pearl and Bayowolf

Bayowolf and Wolfspearl have been married for 42 years and partners in kink for the last 13. Shibari has become a central part of their journey over the past six years, deepening both their connection...

11 Elo 202526min

Ep205 :  Aging as a Rope Bottom - An interview with Pearl

Ep205 : Aging as a Rope Bottom - An interview with Pearl

Pearl began her rope bottoming journey in 2019 at the age of 57, attending Bondage Expo Dallas with her husband, Bayowolf. In preparation for Beach Bind 2021, they dove into the local rope scene, atte...

28 Heinä 202527min

Ep204: Combining rope bondage with… Wax Play

Ep204: Combining rope bondage with… Wax Play

In this episode Fox and Mya discuss how you might successfully combine rope play with a very popular form of BDSM activity, wax play! This is usually pouring or dripping molten wax over the skin of a ...

14 Heinä 202527min

Ep203: How do you know if you’re ready to be a Rope Educator? (Listener Mail)

Ep203: How do you know if you’re ready to be a Rope Educator? (Listener Mail)

One of our lovely listeners left this comment for us with the following questions: 1. When it comes to being a rope educator, what are the essential skills someone should have? 2. How do you know if...

30 Kesä 202540min

Ep202: Fostering community for men who tie men: An interview with Bondage Otter (part2)

Ep202: Fostering community for men who tie men: An interview with Bondage Otter (part2)

BondageOtter(he/they) is the founder of Rope Burn SF, the USA’s first ongoing masc-of-center, rope-specific play party + skill share, with his remaining energy spent volunteering for numerous gay orga...

16 Kesä 202521min

Ep201 :  Tips and ideas for men who tie men, An interview with Bondage Otter (part1)

Ep201 : Tips and ideas for men who tie men, An interview with Bondage Otter (part1)

BondageOtter (he/they) is a queer leatherman and rope switch who maintains a private S/M practice while organizing public education and play programs for the community of people who want to tie masc-o...

2 Kesä 202529min

Ep200: Special episode - the Rope Podcast and friends reflect on 200 episodes!

Ep200: Special episode - the Rope Podcast and friends reflect on 200 episodes!

It’s hard for us to believe, but this episode is number 200 of the Rope Podcast. That’s a lot of ropey goodness! Starting back in 2017, we’ve somehow managed to produce episodes every two weeks on a r...

19 Touko 202543min

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