What Did You Have To Give Up To Come Out As A Lesbian? Ft. Kai Mata
The Indah G Show1 Joulu 2022

What Did You Have To Give Up To Come Out As A Lesbian? Ft. Kai Mata

Can you believe I went to high school with Indonesia's most fabulous lesbian singer-songwriter? How fierce is that! In this episode, we'll be sitting down with Kai as we walk down memory lane of our time back in High School, discuss her journey of navigating life and career as a gay Chinese-Indonesian woman, the trials and tribulations of coming out, not only to herself, but especially to her friends and family, and of course, Indonesian politics surrounding LGBTQIA.

Timestamps:

01:23 — Intro, Catching Up On The Last 7 years

07:15 — Reflecting Back on Being Gay in High School

17:10 — Reconciling with Self, Falling In Love With Your Best Friend & Lavender Marriages

26:15 — Coming Out To Parents & Grandparents

31:50 — Indonesia's Actually So Queer

33:26 — Sacrifice, Internalized Homophobia, Hierarchy of Acceptance of LGTBQIA in IDN

48:50 — Being A Gay Catholic Chinese Indonesian Woman, What Did You Have To Give Up, Moving To Bali

01:03:53 — Queer Dating & Sex

01:16:53 — Closing

Intro Song: Where Love Goes

Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/id/album/where-love-goes-single/1518663066

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/6e0TEaeQcwhS8ktu5q0AYX?si=-H12ofrGQNerMg2zTlnHjg

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