E91: Suffering and Martyrdom: Coexisting with Life w/ Hayley Twyman Brack

In this presentation, we will discuss the psychological concepts of suffering and the “Martyrdom Effect.” We will also explore how self-inflicted suffering and martyrdom can lead to unhelpful core beliefs about the world and how to develop a healthier relationship with suffering.

Hayley Twyman Brack is a licensed professional counselor and freelance writer in Oklahoma. Hayley has co-authored a textbook chapter for mental health clinicians on helping secular individuals navigate grief and has also written over 350 articles for a satirical, socio-political website. In her freetime, she also co-hosts a board game podcast and officiates secular and LGBTQIA+ weddings.

Hosted by Amaia Perez, the RfR Online Programming Director, and Medelin Nolasco, RfR Helpline Volunteer and Social Host.

Recorded on February 8th, 2021

Discussion resources

www.seculartherapy.org www.findcbt.org

The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris Link to slideshow (PDF): https://tinyurl.com/nbrjpnba

Learn more about Hayley Twyman Brack www.malthausgames.com

Atheist Community of Discord: https://discord.com/invite/B28xRKb

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