105: Ask Dr. Helen (and David) — Is There Such a Thing as Empathy Fatigue?

105: Ask Dr. Helen (and David) — Is There Such a Thing as Empathy Fatigue?

We have invited Dr. Helen Yeni-Komshian to join Fabrice and me for two consecutive podcasts on questions listeners have asked about troubled relationships. In today's podcast, we address a question from Mary about how to deal with a husband who constantly complains and exaggerates how awful things are at work, in politics, and in the world. But when Mary tries to dismiss his statements in an effort to "keep the peace," it just gets worse. His complaints escalate!

This is a common problem and you may have run into it as well. Do you have a friend or family member who loves to complain? And have you noticed that your attempts to help or point out the irrationality of his or her complaints are futile? So what SHOULD you do? What's the secret of dealing with a whiner or a complainer? Is it even possible.

Helen and David provide a myriad of information and describe techniques such as Forced Empathy, Interpersonal Decision Making, Changing the Focus, and the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. You'll LOVE this lively dialogue!

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467: Ask David: How can I help grandma and my mom?

467: Ask David: How can I help grandma and my mom?

#467 Ask David-- How can I help my elderly, demanding grandma? How can I empathize with hostile political figures? The answers to today's questions are brief and were written prior to the show. Listen...

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466: Ask David: Is friendship a need? Help! I'm lost and alone!

466: Ask David: Is friendship a need? Help! I'm lost and alone!

Ask David: Is friendship a basic human need? Lost and alone--What should I do? #466 Ask David: Is friendship a basic human need? Lost and alone—what should I do? The answers to today's questions are b...

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465: The Music of TEAM

465: The Music of TEAM

The Music of TEAM-- A Little Different from the Music of REBT! There are many paradoxes in TEAM! That's part of what makes TEAM challenging, but also exciting. Do you know what the plural of paradox i...

5 Syys 202555min

464: Hopelessness: A New Approach

464: Hopelessness: A New Approach

Hopelessness: A New Approach Featuring Mike Christensen Often, therapists are drawn to become specialists in the very area where they once suffered and felt most vulnerable. In Mike's case, he describ...

1 Syys 202554min

463: The Perfectionism Webinar, Part 2 of 2

463: The Perfectionism Webinar, Part 2 of 2

Defeat Perfectionism and Discover the Art of Self-Acceptance Part 2 of 2 Last week, we published Part 1 of the two-hour webinar on techniques to defeat perfectionism. This week, in Part 2 you'll lear...

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462: The Perfectionism Webinar, Part 1 of 2

462: The Perfectionism Webinar, Part 1 of 2

Defeat Perfectionism and Discover the Art of Self-Acceptance Part 1 of 2 This Is for Everyone--Shrinks AND the General Public! On Wednesday, July 9, 2025, Dr. Jill Levitt and I did a FREE, two-hour w...

18 Elo 20251h 5min

461: Ask David: Perfectionism, Procrastination, and More!

461: Ask David: Perfectionism, Procrastination, and More!

Ask David: How to Stop Giving a Crap Motivating a Procrastinator . . . and More The answers to today's questions are brief and were written prior to the show. Listen to the podcast for a more in-depth...

11 Elo 20251h 5min

460: Ask David: The Fear of Happiness!

460: Ask David: The Fear of Happiness!

Ask David-- The Fear of Happiness! Although we had five questions for today's Ask David episode, we spend the entire podcast on the first question from a man with an intense fear of happiness. He wrot...

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