117: How to Eliminate the Desire for Pornography So You Can Feel ”Normal”

117: How to Eliminate the Desire for Pornography So You Can Feel ”Normal”

Imagine what life would feel like if you didn’t have any desire to look at pornography.

You just simply had no interest in it anymore?

What if you just felt “normal” and could just go about your day without worrying about temptations and urges?

Well, it’s possible. And it’s one of the best feelings in the world.

In this episode I want to share with you exactly how you can achieve that and leverage that heart change to create safety and trust in your marriage

How can you achieve this?

The desire for porn will go away when your inner void is filled with something that actually meets your needs.

So many men use porn as a method of filling their internal void, but it just doesn’t work.

In this episode, I share with you three specific examples of clients who had different voids and how they resolved them in a healthy way.

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173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use

173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use

Sexual intimacy is one of the biggest things that is damaged when their wife discovers her husband pornography use. It can be scary for her to be intimate because of the insecurities and fears that th...

5 Joulu 202437min

Mini Episode 1: If You Struggle With Repeated Setbacks, Do This

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Welcome to today's first mini episode! I'm testing something new and am going to do a podcast that's less than 5 minutes long that gives you a specific tool to implement or a thought to consider. Thes...

2 Joulu 20243min

172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back

172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back

Sometimes when a husband is making good progress personally and in the relationship, his wife has fears and doubts: “How can I know that he’s telling the truth?” “What if he’s just gotten better at hi...

28 Marras 202421min

171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage

171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage

In this episode, I reflect on a powerful moment from a couples counseling session where a wife expressed feeling overwhelmed by the journey ahead. I shared a mindset shift with them: it’s not about 10...

21 Marras 202422min

170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography

170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography

A lot of couples feel stagnant on this journey and don’t make the progress that they hope and it’s slow and discouraging. And what I’ve come to recognize as one of the most important aspects of this w...

14 Marras 202419min

169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust)

169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust)

When a relationship is damaged by pornography use and dishonesty, many couples wonder if it's possible to actually fully rebuild trust again. There are often lots of staggered or trickle disclosures, ...

7 Marras 202424min

168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find Closure in Conversations

168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find Closure in Conversations

Are you and your spouse tired of arguing about the same thing over and over again? Are you feeling stuck not knowing how to find closure and repair the damage of pornography use in your marriage? Most...

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