125: He Wants to Move Forward, But She’s Still Hurting and Her Wall is Up
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction28 Joulu 2023

125: He Wants to Move Forward, But She’s Still Hurting and Her Wall is Up

Most people don’t want to stay in pain any longer than they already have. They want the process to speed up, to find closure and peace sooner, and move forward with a feeling of resolution…

But what if she’s not ready to just leave it all behind?

So many men want to leave the past behind as quickly as possible, because they recognize the impact of their actions has had a tremendous effect on their wife.

He doesn't want her to suffer anymore than she already has, so in his desires to move forward, unintentionally, she feels left behind and her pain gets ignored.

This produces a cycle of her bringing up the past so she can find healing, but the husband sees it as a lack of progress, feels discouraged, and then tries to rush the process along even more.

If you've ever been caught in this pattern, in this episode I share with you one of the most important ways to navigate to move forward quickly while still making sure that the pain she feels is getting the attention and care it deserves.

For therapy with Sam:

I'll help you quit porn within the next 90 days (or I'll work with you for free until you do) – visit stopporn.info to get more information.

Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction

Join the free, private men’s Facebook community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support:

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Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

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