134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use

173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use

Sexual intimacy is one of the biggest things that is damaged when their wife discovers her husband pornography use. It can be scary for her to be intimate because of the insecurities and fears that th...

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Mini Episode 1: If You Struggle With Repeated Setbacks, Do This

Mini Episode 1: If You Struggle With Repeated Setbacks, Do This

Welcome to today's first mini episode! I'm testing something new and am going to do a podcast that's less than 5 minutes long that gives you a specific tool to implement or a thought to consider. Thes...

2 Joulu 20243min

172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back

172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back

Sometimes when a husband is making good progress personally and in the relationship, his wife has fears and doubts: “How can I know that he’s telling the truth?” “What if he’s just gotten better at hi...

28 Marras 202421min

171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage

171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage

In this episode, I reflect on a powerful moment from a couples counseling session where a wife expressed feeling overwhelmed by the journey ahead. I shared a mindset shift with them: it’s not about 10...

21 Marras 202422min

170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography

170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography

A lot of couples feel stagnant on this journey and don’t make the progress that they hope and it’s slow and discouraging. And what I’ve come to recognize as one of the most important aspects of this w...

14 Marras 202419min

169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust)

169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust)

When a relationship is damaged by pornography use and dishonesty, many couples wonder if it's possible to actually fully rebuild trust again. There are often lots of staggered or trickle disclosures, ...

7 Marras 202424min

168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find Closure in Conversations

168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find Closure in Conversations

Are you and your spouse tired of arguing about the same thing over and over again? Are you feeling stuck not knowing how to find closure and repair the damage of pornography use in your marriage? Most...

31 Loka 202423min

167: Managing Urges and Triggers vs Being Free From Them

167: Managing Urges and Triggers vs Being Free From Them

When a man struggles with porn pornography use, it can cause a lot discouragement and fear for both him and his wife. So many women live in constant anxiety that the other shoes going to drop and they...

24 Loka 202416min

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