134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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94. How to Deal With Urges For Pornography Without Needing Willpower

94. How to Deal With Urges For Pornography Without Needing Willpower

Get ready for an eye-opening episode where we tackle the challenge of overcoming the urge to watch pornography.  Join us as we delve into a new way to deal with the triggers and nagging thoughts that ...

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93. Self Compassion: A Research-Based Tool to Reduce Slips and Heal Trauma

93. Self Compassion: A Research-Based Tool to Reduce Slips and Heal Trauma

Do you ever feel trapped in the same addiction cycle, struggling for years without making any progress? You're not alone. But there's one secret that can help you break free and heal for good: self-co...

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92. Tools For A Marriage When There’s No Emotional Safety

92. Tools For A Marriage When There’s No Emotional Safety

Today we're going to talk about pornography addiction and how it can affect a marriage.  It's a problem that undermines safety, destroys trust, and creates a feeling of betrayal for the spouse.  But t...

11 Touko 202325min

91. When the Fear of Another Relapse Is In the Back of Your Mind

91. When the Fear of Another Relapse Is In the Back of Your Mind

Struggling with pornography addiction can be a difficult road to travel, especially when trying to rebuild trust in a relationship.  Even when progress is made, there's often a fear of slipping back i...

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90. 3 Critical Conversations to Have to Heal Your Marraige

90. 3 Critical Conversations to Have to Heal Your Marraige

Podbean info:   After pornography addiction damage is a marriage, there are three critical conversations to have in order to heal and find closure. So often couples will rehash the past, feel complete...

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89. The 4 Steps in the Addiction Cycle (Here’s How to Break It)

89. The 4 Steps in the Addiction Cycle (Here’s How to Break It)

“I’ll just quit tomorrow.” “It’s not that big of a deal if I look at Instagram for a bit.” “I won’t look at full-blown pornography, just a few pictures.” These are the kinds of statements that indicat...

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88. 2 Ways to Increase a Husband’s Compassion and Empathy in Marriage

88. 2 Ways to Increase a Husband’s Compassion and Empathy in Marriage

When a marriage is impacted by pornography addiction, it causes a lot of damage and pain. One of the most important things in the healing process is having compassion and empathy for a wife who has be...

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87. How to Properly Disclose a Relapse (and Avoid a Fight)

87. How to Properly Disclose a Relapse (and Avoid a Fight)

On the path to overcoming a pornography addiction, there are often slips and relapses, and those conversations are painful to have. There is a clear, three-step framework I teach to clients to actuall...

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