134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

Sometimes we go through some very difficult and painful experiences.. And that pain can seem to follow us around and get triggered unexpectedly when we are reminded of the past. The same is true for e...

16 Huhti 202128min

So often people feel burned out on the path of trying to overcome pornography addiction and restoring the marriage... The reason why they continue to struggle is that they don't have a clear road map ...

9 Huhti 202117min

So many people have a hard time wrapping understanding how he can say he loves her, yet still struggle with a porn addiction. The wife often feels like if he really did love her then he wouldn't be lo...

31 Maalis 202130min

So many couples feel like they come to a fork in the road once a husband's porn addiction comes out – divorce and end the pain or stay together and be miserable... There is a third option though and s...

25 Maalis 202120min

Depression and anxiety can suck the joy out of life and relationships... but what if there was a long-term fix without needing medication? In this episode I talk about the actually causes of depressio...

19 Maalis 202127min

Defensiveness can be frustrating when you're trying to resolve a challenge in the marriage. The key is to understand exactly why the defensiveness is happening in the first place (and it's not because...

12 Maalis 202121min

Therapist in the traditional recovery space will tell you that it takes 3-5 years to heal from a pornography addiction.. And it can take at least as long (maybe longer) for marriages to heal. I’m on a...

7 Maalis 202130min

Sexual intimacy is one of the most damaged aspects of a marriage after there's been betrayal from porn addiction. Yet most couples, don't know how to restore intimacy in a healthy way, navigate the tr...

25 Helmi 202137min