134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them.

It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

For therapy with Sam:

Go to stopporn.info for more information about working with Sam

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186: Will Sad and Painful Days in Our Marriage Get Better? Yes, If You Follow This Blueprint

186: Will Sad and Painful Days in Our Marriage Get Better? Yes, If You Follow This Blueprint

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185: She Thinks If She Was Enough, He Wouldn’t Have Watched Pornography (you need to hear this)

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184: Rob's Success Story: How He Went From Almost Divorced to No More Triggers and Urges

184: Rob's Success Story: How He Went From Almost Divorced to No More Triggers and Urges

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183: Fundamental Steps to Repairing Your Marriage After Discovering Pornography Use

183: Fundamental Steps to Repairing Your Marriage After Discovering Pornography Use

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182: Is Porn Addiction Just Part of Who I Am? Do This and It Won’t Be

182: Is Porn Addiction Just Part of Who I Am? Do This and It Won’t Be

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181: When Repair Conversations Fail: He Gets Defensive, Sounds Robotic, and is Unemotional

181: When Repair Conversations Fail: He Gets Defensive, Sounds Robotic, and is Unemotional

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180 Success Story: Tyler's New Approach to Ending His Porn Use In Just A Few Months Without Anxiety and Self-Punishment

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