136: How Long Do We Need To Keep Talking About It?

136: How Long Do We Need To Keep Talking About It?

After the discovery of pornography use, it shatters the foundation of the entire relationship. Naturally, it becomes the center of most conversations as you try to resolve the issues and pain it causes.

Then after you start making some progress, many couples wonder how long they need to keep talking about things? They often tend to have the same conversations over and over again, so they wonder what the next steps are and when they can move forward without always talking about it.

In this episode, I share with you, the key indicators that you're ready to move forward and how you can find closure and resolution if you're not quite there yet.

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179: Critical Advice For Men Who Aren't Free From Porn For 90 Days Yet

179: Critical Advice For Men Who Aren't Free From Porn For 90 Days Yet

The 90-Day Freedom Trap: A Critical Warning If you've been trying to quit pornography but can't stay free for more than 90 days, there's a crucial mistake you need to know about. As a therapist, I see...

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178:  3 Safety Indicators When It’s Hard For Her to Believe He’s Telling the Truth

178: 3 Safety Indicators When It’s Hard For Her to Believe He’s Telling the Truth

Trust Once Broken: How She Can Know He's Really Changed? When pornography breaks trust in a relationship, it creates a painful pattern. He promises he's done, but then more truth comes out months late...

9 Tammi 202524min

177: 5 Mistakes to Avoid if You Want to Quit Pornography in 2025

177: 5 Mistakes to Avoid if You Want to Quit Pornography in 2025

Think about what pornography takes from your life - it's like a heavy fog that clouds everything. It steals your focus, drains your confidence, fills you with shame, and keeps you from being truly pre...

2 Tammi 202527min

176: Why Quitting Pornography Has Felt Hard (and 3 practical strategies that make it much easier)

176: Why Quitting Pornography Has Felt Hard (and 3 practical strategies that make it much easier)

Imagine being stuck in a cycle that seems impossible to break: trying to quit pornography, doing well for a while, slipping up, hurting your partner, and starting all over again. This pattern can go o...

26 Joulu 202421min

175: When He Doesn’t Talk About His Urges, She Thinks He’s Just Hiding Them

175: When He Doesn’t Talk About His Urges, She Thinks He’s Just Hiding Them

Picture a relationship caught in a painful cycle: He struggles with pornography, she puts up walls to protect herself. Things get better for a while when he tries to change, but then life gets busy, o...

19 Joulu 202421min

Mini Episode 3: A Proven Strategy to Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use

Mini Episode 3: A Proven Strategy to Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use

Rebuilding trust after pornography use damages it can feel impossible. Many couples struggle to know where to start when their relationship feels broken. Today, I want to share a simple approach to he...

16 Joulu 20243min

174: Don’t Suppress Urges, Here’s How You Can Use Them to Overcome Pornography Use

174: Don’t Suppress Urges, Here’s How You Can Use Them to Overcome Pornography Use

Have you ever felt trapped by urges that seem impossible to control? Many people struggling with pornography feel like these moments are scary and overwhelming. Most advice tells you to fight these ur...

12 Joulu 202426min

Mini Episode 2: Understanding Emotions Can Shortcut the Healing Process

Mini Episode 2: Understanding Emotions Can Shortcut the Healing Process

One of the most important steps in this process for husbands and wives is to better understand their emotions. Many people ignore or suppress them, but this actually slows down your progress.  Emotion...

9 Joulu 20244min

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