154: LIVE CALL – How to Resolve Triggers During / After Sexual Intimacy

154: LIVE CALL – How to Resolve Triggers During / After Sexual Intimacy

Rebuilding sexual intimacy after damage by pornography can be a challenge for many couples.

A wife often has fears and concerns like:

  • How do I know he's not fantasizing when we're intimate?
  • What if he's just using me and I'm being manipulated?
  • I feel inadequate and not attractive enough

A husband often wants to know how to help his wife through her triggers and how to restore their intimacy together.

In this episode, I meet with a couple live and help them work through these blocks and know what tools to implement to repair their physical intimacy and develop a deeper connection together.

If you like this style of episode, please send me an email and let me know! I'll be doing a few more of these to see if it helps you as a listener. If it does, I'll do more. If it doesn't, then I won't!

You can send your feedback to sam@healingcouples.org

For therapy with Sam:

I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

Click here for info to work with me directly.

Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

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Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

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187: How to Overcome Pornography Use When You're Overwhelmed and Don't Have a Lot of Time

187: How to Overcome Pornography Use When You're Overwhelmed and Don't Have a Lot of Time

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186: Will Sad and Painful Days in Our Marriage Get Better? Yes, If You Follow This Blueprint

186: Will Sad and Painful Days in Our Marriage Get Better? Yes, If You Follow This Blueprint

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185: She Thinks If She Was Enough, He Wouldn’t Have Watched Pornography (you need to hear this)

185: She Thinks If She Was Enough, He Wouldn’t Have Watched Pornography (you need to hear this)

Not Being "Enough": Healing After Sexual Betrayal When a wife discovers her husband's porn use or infidelity, one thought cuts deeper than all others: "I wasn't enough." The pain of betrayal is devast...

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184: Rob's Success Story: How He Went From Almost Divorced to No More Triggers and Urges

184: Rob's Success Story: How He Went From Almost Divorced to No More Triggers and Urges

Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle that seemed impossible to break? For Rob, porn became more than just a habit – it was an escape hatch from feelings of failure and not being good enough. Like man...

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183: Fundamental Steps to Repairing Your Marriage After Discovering Pornography Use

183: Fundamental Steps to Repairing Your Marriage After Discovering Pornography Use

When Pornography Breaks Your Marriage: First Steps to Healing Finding out about a porn addiction feels like your world has shattered. One moment everything seems fine, the next your marriage hits a br...

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182: Is Porn Addiction Just Part of Who I Am? Do This and It Won’t Be

182: Is Porn Addiction Just Part of Who I Am? Do This and It Won’t Be

Breaking the "Try Harder" Trap: A New Approach to Quitting Porn Maybe you've said to yourself, "This time will be different." You delete the apps, block the websites, stay busy - maybe even make it a ...

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181: When Repair Conversations Fail: He Gets Defensive, Sounds Robotic, and is Unemotional

181: When Repair Conversations Fail: He Gets Defensive, Sounds Robotic, and is Unemotional

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