Sex Is A Gift, Not a Weapon
A submissive wife must never use sex to manipulate, punish, or control her husband. Withholding intimacy out of anger—or as leverage to get something he can’t afford—is not only unloving, it’s morally wrong. In marriage, you become one. What is yours is his, and what is his is yours. Physical intimacy is a precious, sacred gift that binds you together emotionally and spiritually. When used rightly, it strengthens your bond. When used wrongly, it creates distance and harm. Give of yourself freely and lovingly. Intimacy should reflect connection, not control.
2 Kesä 2min
A submissive wife knows to Dress to honor him
A submissive wife should keep her focus solely on her husband. Comparing him to movie stars, coworkers, or your friends’ husbands is not only unwise—it’s deeply disrespectful. These comparisons can make your husband feel inadequate, as though he’ll never measure up. It sends the painful message that you wish he were someone else. But remember: he’s the one who captured your heart. He’s the man you chose. He deserves your admiration, not your criticism. If he feels seen, respected, and loved as himself, he will flourish in his role. Celebrate who he is, not who he isn’t.
1 Kesä 1min
A Submissive Wife Should Celebrate Who He Is
A submissive wife should keep her focus solely on her husband. Comparing him to movie stars, coworkers, or your friends’ husbands is not only unwise—it’s deeply disrespectful. These comparisons can make your husband feel inadequate, as though he’ll never measure up. It sends the painful message that you wish he were someone else. But remember: he’s the one who captured your heart. He’s the man you chose. He deserves your admiration, not your criticism. If he feels seen, respected, and loved as himself, he will flourish in his role. Celebrate who he is, not who he isn’t.
31 Touko 1min
How To Be A Submissive Wife - Responding with Grace
A submissive wife should not let small disagreements spiral into major conflicts. Many arguments that steal your peace and joy are rooted in emotions that can be expressed more wisely. Instead of reacting with frustration, use these moments to sharpen your communication skills. Learn to express your feelings without anger—this is a powerful strength. When your husband hears your heart without hostility, he is more likely to listen, understand, and respond in love. Speak with calm. Lead with grace. A peaceful wife builds a peaceful home.
30 Touko 1min
A Submissive Wife Knows To Let Him Lead—Step Back with Grace
A submissive wife must understand that her husband cannot step into his God-given role if she won’t step back. Leadership requires space—and respect. If you're constantly making the decisions or steering the home, how can he rise to his calling? Show him you trust him. Allow him to lead. That means holding your tongue when it's time, deferring when needed, and encouraging him to step up. You’re not losing control—you’re building order, peace, and unity. Let him be the Head of the House, and stand beside him with grace.
29 Touko 1min
A Submissive Wife Knows That Submission Is a Gift, Not a Right
A submissive wife should always remember that her submission is a choice—a sacred gift she offers from a place of strength, not weakness. It is not something to be demanded or abused. Her husband must cherish this gift, and honor it with faithfulness, gentleness, and integrity. Submission does not give a man the right to harm his wife physically or emotionally. True leadership is never cruel. A submissive wife is not a doormat. She is not a punching bag. She is a strong, godly woman who has chosen to follow and support a man she trusts. And he must prove himself worthy of that trust daily
28 Touko 1min
A Submissive Wife Knows Divorce Is Not an Option—Devotion Is
A submissive wife understands that divorce has no place in her marriage. When she said “I do,” it meant forever. Yes, challenges will come. Disagreements will happen. But the answer is never to walk away. Unity means staying, praying, and working through the storms hand in hand. Marriage is not disposable—it’s sacred. A wife who submits to her husband also submits to the covenant they share. Instead of seeking an exit, she seeks solutions. The harder the fight, the deeper the bond that can be built. Divorce is not an option—devotion is.
27 Touko 1min
A Submissive Wife Knows To Listen to Understand, Not to Respond
A wife who desires to walk in submission must make it a priority to truly listen when her husband speaks. Too often, it’s easy to prepare a response before he’s even finished talking. But a submissive wife listens attentively—not to debate or correct, but to understand his thoughts, feelings, and intentions. She focuses on the whole conversation, not just the parts she wants to respond to. This kind of listening is an act of respect and love. It shows him that his voice matters, that he is heard, and that she values his leadership. Good listening builds trust. Trust builds unity.
26 Touko 1min
