Ep. 89 - Delight and Desire
Today Vern explores how 2 words - delight and desire can go a long way in giving us immunity to the outside pull of porn and other distractions!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free resources you can also check out the websitehttps://bandofbrothers.care
15 Heinä 202415min
Ep. 88 - Father's Day - How to Be a Good and Safe Man
This last Sunday Vern spoke on Sunday morning on how men can move from being an *ss to being good and safe men - something women, our churches and our communities desperately need more of.If you are looking for a safe person to talk about your Sexual struggles - Vern gets it - as a Pastor for 30 years Vern has battled porn as a pastor and didn't have a safe place to go to or someone to turn to.To connect with Vern you can reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com
18 Kesä 202444min
Ep. 87 - Quit Your Grovelling
Have you ever had God tell you to quit your grovelling? Today Vern explores a bible story where that happens and relates it to our recovery walk.If you are looking for a safe place to talk to regarding your struggles with porn - Vern has walked that struggle and would love to share his hope with you.His email is bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com
29 Touko 202417min
Ep. 86 - The Hardest Sermon You'll Ever Give
In this episode Vern answers the question - what is the hardest sermon you'll ever give? I truly believe this episode is crucial to both listen to and keep in your constant awareness as a pastor. If it helpful for you - pass it on!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free resources you can also check out the websitehttps://bandofbrothers.care
13 Touko 202424min
Ep. 85 - Seasons of Susceptibility
As I talk and work with pastors I have noticed that there are 3 seasons of vulnearabilitywhere patterns of sexual brokenness seem to emerge in our lives. In this episode I lay out those seasons and take the approach to be fore-warned is to be for-armed!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free resources you can also check out the websitehttps://bandofbrothers.care
6 Touko 202429min
Ep. 84 - Examination and Confession
This last Sunday Vern spoke at church regarding the spiritual step of self examiniation and confession. As pastors struggling with our sexual brokenness - it provides a crucial "powerpoint" that is available to us as we see to walk toward a life of healing and wholeness.If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more free resources you can also check out the website bandofbrothers.care
22 Huhti 202438min
Ep. 83 - Sitting in Your Sin
Most of us seek to deny, hide, run from or rail agains the sin which dogs our steps. In this episode Vern proposes a counter intuitive approach that he believes will actually result in better results - sitting in our sin!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn to to talk about your sexual struggles - you can get ahold of Vern atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comIf you are looking for more resources you can also check out the website bandofbrothers.care
8 Huhti 202425min
