E.116 - Polyamory and Sex Work with Justine Guzman

E.116 - Polyamory and Sex Work with Justine Guzman

Justine joins me on this episode to talk about the intersection of polyamory and sex work. As a sugar baby herself, Justine talks about the work, effort, time, and energy it takes to be successful as an online sex worker. Having and maintaining multiple online relationships is a full-time job, and Justine talks about how these relationships often become real relationships, even if they start as transactional.

One thing that came up during our conversation was how Justine protects herself in her sugaring dynamic, using things she learned on her polyam journey like boundaries, communication, and consent.

Justine warns about how sex workers can fall prey to predators, especially when they enter into sex work when they're hard up on funds. She also shares how some predatory practices, like blackmail, can be used against either party.

Polaym boundaries and sex work boundaries sometimes overlap, and Justine talks about some of the rules, agreements, and boundaries that she uses in both polyam relationships and also when vetting her sugar daddies. Just like in her polyam relationships, Justine requires that all partners are aware of their transactions, so that everyone involved can maintain informed consent!

This was a super fun and insightful conversation that you won't want to miss!

Learn more about Justine at www.stereo.com/gumdropjones and follow her on IG: @beautifulstackofpancakes !

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E.49 - Powerfully Ending Relationships with Jen Schwartz

E.49 - Powerfully Ending Relationships with Jen Schwartz

In this episode I interview Dr. Jen Schwartz, an awesome polyam therapist based out of Utah. She's been practicing polyamory for 20+ years, including having lived several years as part of a quad with ...

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E.48 - Compersion and Relationship Expectations with Open Relating's Roy Graff

E.48 - Compersion and Relationship Expectations with Open Relating's Roy Graff

In this episode I am joined by Roy Graff from Open Relating, based out of the UK. We dive headfirst into talking about compersion and jealousy, and as the conversation goes on we get deep into what i ...

17 Touko 202136min

E.47 - Intersection of Autism and Sex/Relationships with B Lourenco

E.47 - Intersection of Autism and Sex/Relationships with B Lourenco

In this episode I learned A LOT from therapist B Lourenco about how Autism Spectrum Disorder (or Autism Spectrum Condition hopefully soon!) shows up in adults and how it affects their relationships. W...

12 Touko 202134min

E.46 - Stop Seeing Metamours as Competition with Psychedelic Therapist Valerie Beltrán

E.46 - Stop Seeing Metamours as Competition with Psychedelic Therapist Valerie Beltrán

In this episode with Valerie Beltrán, we discuss metamour relationships. She explains how in her own journey, her views shifted from seeing her metamours as a threat to her relationship, to seeing the...

11 Touko 202133min

E.45 - How to be Truly Autonomous with Marie D'Elephant

E.45 - How to be Truly Autonomous with Marie D'Elephant

What does it mean to be truly autonomous? Like really, TRULY autonomous? Amongst other things, it means to break free of all of the myriad constraints that we’re held back by…constraints held by socie...

10 Touko 202138min

E.44 - #endthestigma with Emelie A. Blank, MA, LPC

E.44 - #endthestigma with Emelie A. Blank, MA, LPC

Therapists are human, too, and in this episode Emelie and I talk about what we can do to #endthestigma around everyone (including therapists) getting counseling and therapy. We dive into ADHD and I le...

5 Touko 202131min

E.43 - Finding Fulfillment by Giving Back with Amariah Love

E.43 - Finding Fulfillment by Giving Back with Amariah Love

On today's episode we have therapist Amariah Love and her partner, Patrick, who talk to us about how they met and how Amariah's work as a therapist transcends into her polyamorous relationships. They ...

4 Touko 202139min

E.42 - Handling Grief & the Power of Community with Taylor Mefford

E.42 - Handling Grief & the Power of Community with Taylor Mefford

Grief and identity are such interesting subjects and in this episode, therapist Taylor Mefford and I talk about where those two important subjects intersect. I gotta tell you all, I was really loving ...

3 Touko 202135min

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