#44 Sexual Mastery: Pussies, Vulvas, Yonis

Tune in as we chat with Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Kat Nantz about her journey as she learned how to heal chronic pain through pleasure.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  We also answer a sex question about working with back pain during sex.  About our guest: Kat Nantz is a trauma informed Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach who believes you are your own greatest healer, and her job is to bring you home to the wisdom that lives in your body. After having 17 surgeries as a young child, spending years being led out of her body and being objectified in medical settings, she had a powerful realization that her greatest healing would occur when she landed in her body and listened. As a disabled mama, facilitator and coach, Kat has a unique approach that empowers folks through building somatic embodied awareness, and honouring the body's capacity to heal through pleasure and play. Bringing people home to pleasure and home to their core power is her life purpose. To learn more visit katnantz.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

5 Touko 202044min

How can we discover our own sexual needs and desires and then lovingly speak up for them with lovers/partners? We also answer a sex question: I feel like a sex goddess inside but my partner views me as delicate and puts me on a pedestal.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.  About our guest: Monica Jayne is a leader of unabashed self-expression, a mentor of true internal freedom, a coach of authentic communication and speaking up, and an educator of erotic liberation. She has been a 6-figure exec in a male-dominated industry, earned over 5000 hours of continuing ed and teaching yoga theory and philosophy for accredited collegiate institutions, and is an expert in communication, authenticity, vulnerability, relationship, sex, and intimacy. She’s a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ with certifications in Queer Competency and Sexological bodywork forthcoming. Monica Jayne catalyzes evolution in all facets of your being, evoking your permission to speak up and be unabashedly you! To learn more visit monicajayne.com/more Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Take affordable yoga, pilates and even a 40 hour yoga intensive online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/ Get 15% off some of our favorite 100% plant-based lubricants and oils with code SHAMELESSSEX at https://intamopleasurables.com/ Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

1 Touko 202057min

Dr. Nan Wise returns to answer your sex questions about orgasm difficulties and blocks, cheating and non-ethical non-monogamy, and what sexuality might look like after COVID-19.  About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com.  Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

28 Huhti 202049min

In this episode we interview adult performer and badass entrepreneur Larkin Love AKA everyone's favorite big tittied goth mama all about the ins and outs of her life in the porn industry.  We also answer a sex question: Does excessive masturbation cause any harm? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.  About our guest: Known for her 32J breasts and fierce black hair, Larkin Love has gone from adult star to self-made entrepreneur running her own website and becoming the queen of the clips universe. Her clips and site larkinlove.com feature her as the master of role play. She’s always a chameleon going from kinky mom to librarian to cosplay characters like superheroine Power Girl and League of Legends Ahri, and more. Larkin captivates her members and clip buyers with the kinkiest hardcore, taboo, and fetish scenes on the planet, as well as her specialty blowjobs, incredibly long tongue, and jaw-dropping dirty talk. Larkin was a librarian and earned a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She started in adult as a stripper and nude model, and in 2011 she leaped into hardcore and worked with all the top-shelf studios. In 2018, she won the triple crown for Best Clip Artist from the Altporn Awards, XBIZ Cam Awards, and Inked Awards. 2019 started off with a bang—she had two Grossy Awards wins for Favorite Guest and Most Interesting Guest, as well as scoring Best Clip Artist from the Alt Porn Awards for the 2nd year in a row. Larkin has also received multiple nominations from AVN, XBIZ Cam, Fleshbot, Pornhub, Inked, ALT Porn, Urban X, and AVN Fan Awards. She’s graced the covers of Hustler Taboo and Altstar magazines, was spotlighted as the centerfold and feature in Leg Sex Magazine and Hustler’s Taboo, profiled by AVN Magazine, and scored mainstream coverage with Complex and Cosmo UK. Larkin also works as a professional dominatrix. Keep up with everything in Larkin’s universe by following her on Twitter @larkinlovexxx, Instagram @larkinloverules, and Tumblr larkinlovexxx.tumblr.com, and like her Facebook fan pagefacebook.com/misslarkinlove. Talk dirty to her on SextPanther CallPrincessLarkin.com and Verified Call larkinlove.com/callme. Buy Larkin’s taboo and kink clips at ManyVids larkinlove.manyvids.com and pick up her femdom clips at princesslarkin.com. Get exclusive content on her MV Crushmanyvids.com/Profile/562290/Larkin-Love and Premium Snapchat at SnapWithLarkin.com. Subscribe to her AVN Stars stars.avn.com/larkinlovexxx and/or OnlyFans larkinlovefanclub.com for more exclusives than you can count. Join her Pornhub Channel to see free full-length videos and photos pornhub.com/pornstar/larkin-love Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get 20% off Hot Octopuss toys with code SSPOD20 at hotoctopuss.com  Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

24 Huhti 202052min

What is the “Minax Method” and how does it apply to kink and BDSM in relationships?  We also answer a sex question: My partner is into S/M and my I'm not interested because of my sexual trauma.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Professional Domina, Kink Educator and Pleasure Artist, Eve Minax delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. Learning and practicing BDSM from Chicago, to Paris, to Melbourne, and now local to San Francisco Minax has exercised her pedagogical skills at a plethora of conferences. She is the former coordinator for CineKink:Chicago, the West Coast Coordinator for the LA&M Road show, on the board of CARAS and TASHRA. Minax is also certified Urban Tantrika, and a Bondassage Practitioner and trainer. She has self produced over 100 videos and shoots for many great bondage sites like bondageland.com and seriousbondage.com. She currently trains up and coming Dominatrices and those who wish to deepen their work. To learn more visit mistressminax.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

21 Huhti 20201h

How does erotica get us into our ultimate turn on? And how can we write our own sexy stories?  We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing with my wife. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.  About our guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, event organizer and writing instructor. She’s edited over 60 anthologies, including Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, The Big Book of Orgasms, The Big Book of Submission, Tasting Him: Oral Sex Stories, Tasting Her: Oral Sex Stories, Crossdressing, Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, Best Bondage Erotica of the Year, Volume 1 and five volumes of the Best Women’s Erotica of the Year series. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, O, The Oprah Magazine, SELF, Elle, Rolling Stone, and elsewhere, and she writes regularly about book publishing for Forbes online. Her pansexual erotica has spanned numerous subjects, from French fries to Monica Lewinsky to boxing, as well as exploring lap dances, a dishwashing fetish, a nudist resort and a kissing party, among other scenarios and settings. Her work has appeared in Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006 edited by Susie Bright as well as Zane’s bestsellers Succulent: Chocolate Flava II and Purple Panties, and translated into Italian, German and Japanese. She teaches in-person erotic writing workshops across the United States and around the world, as well as consulting via EroticaWriting101.com on erotica and sexuality nonfiction, and will be launching an online erotica writing class in 2020. Find her on Twitter @raquelita. To learn more visit rachelkramerbussel.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

17 Huhti 202055min

How can men become the master of their sexual energy? Why is this helpful? And how can they learn to up their orgasm game both alone and with partners? We also answer a sex question about opening up the relationship as a means of satisfying differing sex drives.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. And to receive a discount on his program use code Shamelesssex at checkout. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months  Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

14 Huhti 20201h 4min

Tune in to learn the latest tips and tricks on seduction and foreplay.  We also answer a sex question: I pleasure my partner but they rarely reciprocate. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23.  About our guest: Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a sexologist and a sex coach who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips. She is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. She has studied human sexuality for more than 19 years and has been featured on a variety of media outlets, as well as spoken to various audiences around the world. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay - available April 14th, 2020 - with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly and is currently writing a chapter and co-editing An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy, coming in 2021. To learn more visit http://velvetlipsllc.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

10 Huhti 202052min