Gaslighting, Red Flags & Manipulation - Cultivating H.E.R Space Podcast Preview

This hour with Amberly Rothfield is essential listening for anyone who's ever considered being a phone sex operator, telephone dominatrix, cam performer, or XXX content creator. Amberly gives us tips from her book "How I Made $10k a Month as a Phone Sex Operator" (the electronic version is free right now BTW, get it!). She covers: working for services vs. being independent, how to remain anonymous, considerations before breaking into the business, how to generate passive income, marketing yourself effectively, the different types of phone sex specialties, and more. We also talk about some of the unique calls and requests she gets, the psychology behind unusual fetishes, sexual improv, and how sex work and sex positivity have enhanced her own life. Sunny even tells some phone sex secrets of her own! Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 54 Links Amberly Rothfield Twitter www.twitter.com/amberlypso Amberly Rothfield Website www.amberlyrothfield.com How I made $10,000 a Month as a Phone Sex Operator Free Digital Book https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-i-made-10000-a-month-as-a-phone-sex-operator-amberly-rothfield/1129216659?ean=2940161904374 Erotic Heritage Museum, Las Vegas Change Your Life Through Sex Positivity event 8/18/18 (free) https://www.eventbrite.com/e/change-your-life-through-sex-positivity-tickets-48794913901 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 54 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

13 Elo 20181h 11min

minimus maximus is an experienced submissive and one of the hosts of the popular Off The Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast. We delve into the how's and why's of some of his favorite kinky activities like chastity play, Female Domination, cuckolding, CFNM parties, and extreme humiliation. He takes us through the most intense scene he's ever had (and it was a real mindf*ck!), we discuss why the BDSM lifestyle can be comforting to those on the autism spectrum, and he gives resources for "aspies & auties" navigating BDSM, dating, and relationships. We also explore the possibility of minimus maximus' sexuality being influenced by the cult his parents raised him in as a child. Sunny & Ken celebrate the first anniversary of American Sex, answer listener questions about their first year on air, and reminisce about episodes past. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 53 Links minimus maximus twitter https://twitter.com/minimusmaxim Off The Cuffs podcast https://www.offthecuffs.org/ Being There podcast https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/off-the-cuffs/being-there/e/53495735 Screw The Roses Send Me The Thorns book http://sunnymegatron.com/product/screw-the-roses-send-me-the-thorns/ Aspies & Auties Fetlife Group https://fetlife.com/groups/1225 Wild Wild Country documentary about the cult minimus maximus was raised in https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBLS_OM6Puk Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori's Forte Femme August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY Episode 53 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

6 Elo 20181h 17min

We sat down with BDSM & rope bondage superstars, Graydancer & Naiia, to talk about the BDSM "scene". Some assume this group is ripe with open communication, ethical behavior, and clearly negotiated consent because those concepts are cornerstones of BDSM. It turns out kink communities have their fair share of toxicity and inequity too-- just like most other social groups. Gray & Naiia share some innovative perspectives on these issues and discuss possible solutions. They've even implemented some themselves, namely popularizing an "open source" style conference model that is revolutionizing the way the rope and kink communities operate. Interestingly, this conversation doesn't just apply to kink-- most communities (yoga, theater, work groups, bowling leagues-- you name it!) can benefit from this episode. Appropriately we recorded this live at the COPE BDSM conference which was the perfect backdrop! (Original photo used in our episode art by Mistress Mayhem) Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 52 Links Graydancer Website http://graydancer.com Naiia Website http://naiiabound.com Grue Website http://GRUE.space Ropecraft Website http://ROPECRAFT.net $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY Graydancer "kinky sketchnotes" Patreon http://patreon.com/graydancer Graydancer Twitter https://twitter.com/Graydancer Naiia Twitter https://twitter.com/naiia Kink Academy online learning video library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Uberrime Dildos https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/uberrime-handmade-dildos Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori's Forte Femme August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ Episode 52 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

30 Heinä 20181h 15min

Typically women in the U.S. are on the losing end of an uneven division of labor. We are expected to give a f*ck about everything. This isn't only for those that are parents or in heterosexual marriages. These rigid gender roles seep in at work, in school, in friendships, etc-- even when we're consciously trying to break free of them. In this episode, Airial Clark teaches us How to Be a Woman And Not Give a F*ck. It's a must listen no matter your gender. Airial also tackles sex-positive parenting with us-- when and how should you start to your kids about sex? What's the best way to teach bodily autonomy and privacy but still parent effectively? How do you introduce sex-positive parenting when your kids are already teens? Ken & Sunny discuss unsolicited dick pics and the demand for well-endowed sex workers. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 51 Links Airial Clark Twitter http://twitter.com/airialclark Airial Clark Instagram http://instagram.com/airial_not_ariel Airial Clark Facebook http://facebook.com/TheSexPositiveParent/ Airial Clark Website airialclark.com How to be a Woman & Not Give a Fuck http:// howtobeawomanandnotgiveafuck. com The Sex Positive Parent thesexpositiveparent. com Garfunkel & Oates song 50/50 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCKpJkplwoU&t=16s Scarleteen http://www.scarleteen.com/ The Body is Not an Apology https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/ Division of Labor cartoon/meme https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori's Forte Femme August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) http://adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 51 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

23 Heinä 20181h 13min

This is our jam-packed relationship episode! Dr. Jess zeroes in on the real issues we need to focus on for better relationships. She explains the chemistry of love and why things seem to go south after the honeymoon period is over, why taking calculated risks is vital to the longevity and quality of your relationship, how to battle the resentment and criticism that pop up in arguments, why addressing these issues will revitalize your sex life, plus she gives tips and resources you can start using today to improve communication with your partners. We also get personal-- Dr. Jess opens up about her own relationship hurdles and we reveal what the sex lives of sexologists are really like. Ken & Sunny discuss Stormy Daniels' latest legal hurdle plus Sunny comes up with the perfect couples anniversary gift. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 50 Links Dr. JessTwitter twitter.com/SexWithDrJess Dr. Jess Instagram instagram.com/sexwithdrjess Dr. Jess Facebook facebook.com/sexwithdrjess Dr. Jess Website sexwithdrjess.com The 36 Questions That Lead to Love https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html Dr. Jess' 60 Second Favors https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/2018/04/60-seconds-to-a-better-relationship-favours/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori's Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 50 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

16 Heinä 20181h 11min

Jimanekia Eborn takes a heavy subject and makes it feel like a breath of fresh air. Overcoming sexual trauma can be incredibly difficult. Jimanekia tells us about her journey of healing from her own trauma and the work she now does with other survivors*. She also discusses the ways in which people of color can experience trauma differently and why. This episode is jam-packed with ideas for working through trauma, helping friends and partners heal, and includes (low cost!) therapy resources. Sunny takes a vow for some much-needed self-care plus Ken & Sunny confess their love for watching Dr. Miami perform surgery on Snapchat. *Episode contains detailed accounts of sexual assault and partner abuse. It also mentions childhood sexual assault. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 49 Links Jimanekia Eborn Twitter twitter.com/jimanekia Jimanekia Eborn Instagram instagram.com/jimanekia Jimanekia Eborn Website sewjim.com Better Help http://tryonlinetherapy.com/jimanekia (You fill out a survey and get matched with a therapist who understands your experience within 24 hours. Costs as low as $30 a month. You can talk via skype, texting, phone, etc.) Juicebox https://www.juiceboxit.com/ Use promo code JIMANEKIA to get 60% off your first week Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) $100 off Midori's Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 49 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

9 Heinä 20181h 1min

Looking at Paul Fishbein you'd never guess he's "the porn guy." Fresh out of college in the early 80s Paul was working at a video store when he spotted an unaddressed need in the adult movie industry. He went on to found AVN-- the magazine, organization, and awards show otherwise known as "The Oscars of Porn." Paul shares stories from the heyday of x-rated moviemaking and the personal tragedy that prompted his exit from that world. He also gives us a peek into his new career producing mainstream TV and film-- what it was like to feature Whoopi Goldberg in a documentary about porn, why Jeff Goldblum is a dream interview, the scoop on behind-the-scenes turbulence on the set of Sex with Sunny Megatron & more. Ken & Sunny answer a listener question about DDLG relationships plus Sunny discovers a disturbing Facebook loophole that enables dick pic senders. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 48 Links The Butterfly Effect Podcast free on Audible with 30-day trial http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG) article http://sunnymegatron.com/7-fundamental-characteristics-of-a-daddy-dominant/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2018-06-18/the-dark-side-of-onetaste-the-orgasmic-meditation-companyhttps://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori's Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 48 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of "indie" sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

2 Heinä 20181h 16min

Raven Roxx was the epitome of masculinity until just a few years ago. Now she's a drop dead gorgeous adult performer living her best life. Ken & Sunny talk to Raven about her former conservative lifestyle as a married man in the military, the lengths she went to denying her sexual orientation & gender identity, and the explosive confrontation that lead to Raven's secret transition and eventual coming out. Raven also tells us how the Veterans Administration helped with her transition and gives advice for transgender veterans navigating military health care. Ken & Sunny learn of damning accusations against the OneTaste Orgasmic Meditation organization and discuss their experience filming a segment for their TV show at the OneTaste San Francisco Headquarters. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/ojoy and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 47 Links Raven Roxx Twitter https://twitter.com/TsRavenRoxx Raven Roxx Instagram https://www.instagram.com/roxxraven/ Raven Roxx website RavenRoxx.com Raven Roxx Cam site TsRaven.com Raven Roxx Many Vids https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1000402016/TsRavenRoxx/ Raven Roxx horror themed movie https://www.adultempire.com/2497484/shemale-scares-porn-movies.html Totally Inappropriate Radio Show https://tiradioshow.com/ Bloomberg OneTaste Oming article https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2018-06-18/the-dark-side-of-onetaste-the-orgasmic-meditation-company Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori's Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 47 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of "indie" sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Ojoy Lily Rose silicone thrusting rabbit vibrator giveaway ($99 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ojoy 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

25 Kesä 20181h 11min