"Why do I both want and not want friends?" ep.119
Ask Kati Anything30 Kesä 2022

"Why do I both want and not want friends?" ep.119

Ask Kati Anything ep. 119 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT Audience Questions: 1. Do you have any advice for someone who doesn't have friends or a relationship, but both wants and doesn't want any/it? I have social anxiety, so making friends tends to be hard to begin with, but I often feel bored and lonely and want... 2. I'm curious about why we would imagine bad things happening to us. Often, I imagine I'm being hurt, not identical scenarios to past traumas but similar themes. I've been curious about this for a while and have noticed I tend to lean into it when my SH & ED aren't really helping enough, almost as a punishment... 3. I recently listened to an episode where you described looking into the past too long as a form of self harm by impeding healing. Is there ever a point where you can look back at a life forming event that was in some way traumatic without it impeding healing? If so, is it all about... 4. Ever since I was a child I used to 'go' to a fantasy world I created in my mind when I'm not feeling safe. Well, I'm still doing this at 25 and I feel very ashamed because of it. My therapist asked whether I could tell her what happens there... 5. My question pertains to inner child work and emotion regulation. I record my virtual therapy sessions to help myself remember and process what we work on each week (my therapist’s suggestion), but when I get stuck in a depressive spiral, I rewatch (and rewatch and rewatch) the portions of my sessions when... 6. How can we stay in the 'healthy eating habits' path? I feel like I have too emotional attachments to food. I love different cuisines, I love desserts, love eating out and I love trying out new flavors, so I adore eating overall! I try to recognize patterns, for example when I reward myself with food after a long and hard day.... 7. Why do some people gravitate towards healthy coping mechanisms and some people don’t? I’ve been struggling and I just keep trading one bad coping skill for another. First several Ed’s then SH then drinking. Once I realize what I’m doing is bad I’ll stop but then a new one pops up... 8. Happy Thursday! I think I may have experienced some religious trauma. My question is: How do I figure out what I believe in and what my own beliefs are and unlearn what I have been taught through church and my upbringing? I hope this makes sense. ------ Kati's Books Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j Are u ok? http://bit.ly/2s0mULy Online Therapy While I do not currently offer online therapy, my sponsor Betterhelp will connect you with a licensed, online counselor. VISIT https://betterhelp.com/kati Patreon https://www.patreon.com/katimorton Amazon Suggestions https://www.amazon.com/shop/katimorton Business Contact Linnea Toney linnea@underscoretalent.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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My Emotions Are So Overwhelming! HELP! ep.163

My Emotions Are So Overwhelming! HELP! ep.163

This week we're discussing emotion regulation, feeling anxious and depressed at the same time, and why that can be so uncomfortable and dangerous! Kati also explains why we can feel angry at our abuse...

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Is TRAUMA HEALING Possible Without Talking About THE SPECIFICS? | AKA ep.162

Is TRAUMA HEALING Possible Without Talking About THE SPECIFICS? | AKA ep.162

This week Kati talks about trauma healing, if we can do it without talking through the specifics, and how to untangle our identity from what happened to us. She also discusses attachment in therapy, w...

4 Touko 20231h 3min

Am I allowed to record my therapy sessions? Is That A Good Idea?| AKA ep. 161

Am I allowed to record my therapy sessions? Is That A Good Idea?| AKA ep. 161

This week Kati talks about recording therapy sessions and if that’s a good idea or even allowed. She also explains why we would be looking for a deeper meaning when our therapist tells us things, and ...

27 Huhti 20231h 2min

What's the difference between numbing out and dissociation? ep.160

What's the difference between numbing out and dissociation? ep.160

This week licensed therapist Kati Morton dives into the differences between numbing out and dissociation, and why one can lead to the other sometimes. She also explains why we can get caught up in a c...

20 Huhti 20231h 1min

Emotional Neglect, Better Parenting, Working on Trauma and more... AKA 159

Emotional Neglect, Better Parenting, Working on Trauma and more... AKA 159

This week licensed therapist Kati Morton talks about emotional neglect during our teen years, what it means to have a healthy emotional relationship, and what we can do to be better parents. She also ...

13 Huhti 20231h 11min

Shame , Embarrassment, Dissociation, Trauma & Procrastination - AKA 158

Shame , Embarrassment, Dissociation, Trauma & Procrastination - AKA 158

In this episode Kati talks about shame, embarrassment and why those feelings can come up when we try to express ourselves. She also digs into dissociation, what it can feel like, look like, and ways t...

6 Huhti 20231h 25min

Childhood trauma, dissociation and coping skills | ep. 157

Childhood trauma, dissociation and coping skills | ep. 157

Licensed therapist Kati Morton discusses childhood trauma, dissociation, and why that can be a helpful coping skill growing up. She also explains the difference between feeling nothing versus having a...

30 Maalis 20231h 10min

Processing Trauma, Nightmares & Mental Blocks | ep 156

Processing Trauma, Nightmares & Mental Blocks | ep 156

This week Kati talks about dealing with nightmares, how to know if we have processed our trauma completely, and whether or not we have to tell our therapist about our self injury. She also gives us ti...

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