#181 - Stripper Competitions: Featuring, Creating, and Touring Domestically and Internationally with Ciara

On the last episode of Season 7, I invite Max Chabanel, a former corporate executive turned companion, to discuss the intricacies of the Fly Me To You (FMTY) service in the adult industry. We explore Max's journey from corporate life to sex work, the dynamics of traveling with clients, and the importance of setting boundaries and expectations. The conversation emphasizes the need for clear communication, understanding personal limits, and navigating intimacy during extended bookings. Max shares valuable insights and tips for both companions and clients, highlighting the realities of FMTY beyond the glamor. In this conversation, we also discuss the intricacies of being a travel companion, focusing on client expectations, setting boundaries, and the importance of self-care. We delve into how to manage personal energy, set appropriate rates, and navigate travel logistics while ensuring safety. The dialogue emphasizes the need for clear communication and mutual understanding between companions and clients to foster a positive experience.Follow Max below:https://x.com/maxchabanellinktr.ee/maxchabanelPS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at ⁠⁠⁠www.wearepsgroup.com⁠⁠⁠Connect with me below:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://strippedbysia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast

27 Huhti 1h

Very excited to bring on Pepper Kat, a cam girl and podcast host, to discuss the complexities of emotional connectivity and relationships within the sex work industry. They explore themes of male loneliness, the changing landscape of relationships, and the blurred lines between intimacy and transactional interactions. The conversation delves into the impact of technology on connection, the challenges of setting boundaries, and the societal pressures faced by men today. In this conversation, we also delve into the complexities of sex work, discussing the emotional labor involved, the stigma faced, and the importance of personalization in adult content. We explore the shifting power dynamics in the industry, emphasizing the need for clear boundaries and ethical considerations when interacting with clients. The discussion highlights the necessity of understanding the emotional needs of clients while maintaining a safe and respectful environment for sex workers.Follow Pepper Kat below:https://www.pepperkat.comPS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at ⁠⁠www.wearepsgroup.com⁠⁠Connect with me below:⁠⁠⁠https://strippedbysia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast

20 Huhti 1h 2min

I'm excited to bring on fellow cam model, Minnie St. Claire, on the show to demonstrate the challenges faced by disabled sex workers. The conversation delves into personal stories, the evolution of webcamming, and the realities of navigating the adult industry whilst having a disability. We explore the complexities of navigating the adult industry, particularly focusing on the intersection of disability and sex work. Minnie details her experiences with trauma, mental health challenges, and the flexibility that sex work provides. Minnie discusses the complexities of navigating disability benefits, income as a content creator, and the duality of identity in the sex work industry. She highlights the challenges of mental health, societal expectations, and the stigma surrounding both sex work and disability. Follow Minnie below:https://x.com/minnieoncamPS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at ⁠www.wearepsgroup.com⁠Connect with me below:⁠⁠https://strippedbysia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast

13 Huhti 1h 4min

A very special episode today! This week, I invite Marston Hefner, the son of Hugh Hefner, who is now making his mark in the adult content industry. We discuss the challenges and dynamics of being a parent in the adult industry, the motivations behind joining adult platforms, and the stigma surrounding sex work. Marston shares his experiences growing up in a famous family and how it shaped his views on nudity and sex work. The conversation also touches on gender dynamics in parenting and the launch of Marston's new adult platform, RM11, a new adult content platform designed to prioritize the needs and earnings of content creators. He emphasizes the importance of a creator-centric approach, offering a favorable commission split and fostering a respectful environment for creators. The discussion also covers challenges related to traffic and visibility, the platform's commitment to creative freedom, and innovative features like interactive content. Marston highlights the significance of privacy and security for creators, the need for diversification in revenue streams, and the importance of community feedback for continuous improvement. Use code "HEFNER" to receive $25 when a creator makes their first $50.Follow Marston here:www.rm11.cominstagram.com/marston101PS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at www.wearepsgroup.comConnect with me below:⁠https://strippedbysia.com⁠⁠https://x.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠https://patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠https://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast

6 Huhti 1h 6min

This week, we welcome Emily Adaire, a trans performer and adult creator based in Germany. They discuss the journey of Emily into sex work, the differences in production standards between Europe and the USA, and the landscape of sex work in Germany, including its legal status and the protections available to sex workers. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by trans performers in the industry and the importance of destigmatizing sex work. In this conversation, they explore various themes surrounding trans representation in the adult film industry, cultural differences between Europe and the US, and the evolving dynamics of collaboration in adult entertainment. They discuss the importance of representation, the impact of legislation on the industry, and the challenges of health standards and testing. The conversation highlights the progress made in trans visibility and the ongoing struggles faced by trans individuals in both personal and professional contexts. We also discuss the financial challenges faced by performers, particularly in relation to testing costs and the overall expenses of being in the industry. The discussion also touches on the importance of agency and creative control for performers, as well as the balance between financial stability and personal fulfillment in their work. Emily shares her journey towards finding this balance and her desire to use her platform for positive change.

30 Maalis 1h 13min

***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault, kidnapping, pimping, physical assault.***We've talked about how much I loved stripping over the years but this year, we will be discussing the complexities of strip club culture. Joining me this week is my guest Dahlia, a former NY-based dancer. The conversation highlights the challenges faced by dancers, the impact of economic changes, and the empowerment that comes from taking control of one's body and choices and the culture of fear that often silences dancers. They highlight the predatory behaviors that can occur within the industry and the struggles dancers face in navigating relationships while maintaining their professional personas. The conversation emphasizes the need for empowerment and the importance of speaking out against injustices in the workplace. We emphasize the need for a humane approach to interactions, the significance of making customers feel valued, and the necessity of setting boundaries when engaging with clients. We also highlights the critical aspects of health and safety, particularly regarding sexual health and the risks associated with extras in the industry. Lastly, we reflect on the evolution of strip club culture, the accessibility of sex work through platforms like OnlyFans, and their personal journeys within the industry. The conversation highlights the camaraderie and struggles faced by dancers, emphasizing the need for self-care and awareness in a challenging environment.

23 Maalis 1h 27min

This week, I welcome adult film stars, Ameena Green and Willow Ryder, to discuss their experiences in the adult industry. The conversation covers their personal journeys, the importance of research and preparation before entering the industry, financial discipline, and the dynamics of living and working together. They also touch on the significance of communication on set, self-care practices, and maintaining boundaries with fans while fostering a genuine connection. We also delve into the complexities of navigating fan expectations, the importance of community support, and the challenges of building a positive reputation in the adult industry. They discuss the need for clear boundaries with fans, the significance of having a supportive network, and how to address harmful behavior within the industry. The conversation also touches on the pros and cons of working in the adult industry, offering valuable advice for those considering entering this field.

15 Maalis 1h 11min

Very excited to bring Isabelle Fox of The Escort Academy to discuss the complexities of being a sex worker, particularly the decision to go 'face out' in the industry. We explore the stigma surrounding sex work, the journey of becoming a mentor and business coach for escorts, and the differences between being face in and face out. The conversation highlights personal stories, challenges, and the importance of de-stigmatizing the adult industry. In this conversation, we discuss personal boundaries, safety precautions, legal ramifications, and the impact of privilege. We also discuss the challenges of recognition, the importance of family support, and the difficulties faced with financial institutions. The dialogue emphasizes the need for careful consideration and personal choice in navigating these issues. We chat about the financial implications of these choices, the importance of mentorship, and the need for support within the community. Isabelle shares her personal journey of going face out and the positive response she received, while also addressing criticism and misunderstandings about her advice. The episode concludes with a reminder of the importance of giving back and supporting one another in the industry.Follow Isabelle below:https://escortacademy.co/https://www.tiktok.com/@isabellefox?_t=ZS-8u2X9h5VX7d&_r=1https://youtube.com/@isabellefoxescort?si=pqFeZ3y2ZOLtIs6fhttps://www.instagram.com/the.isabelle.fox?igsh=dDgxOHJ1OWd0aWZlhttps://www.snapchat.com/add/theisabellefox?share_id=EnnHMgJ1PqM&locale=en-KEhttps://www.facebook.com/share/1Eov3eyxdW/https://www.facebook.com/share/1BVMFoYtcJ/https://bsky.app/profile/isabellefox.bsky.socialConnect with me below:https://strippedbysia.comhttps://x.com/strippedbysiahttps://patreon.com/strippedbysiahttps://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast

9 Maalis 1h 16min