113 Making Sense of Your Story: Why It's Necessary to Name Intentionality Part 1

113 Making Sense of Your Story: Why It's Necessary to Name Intentionality Part 1

Naming intentionality matters because if you are unsure about whether or not the other person meant to hurt you, it will be very difficult for you to heal from your wounds. This is because you can't heal until your brain has constructed an accurate and coherent autobiographical narrative of your life: the narrative has to be true and it has to make sense. Drawing from David Schnarch's book Brain Talk, I explain two important concepts: mind-mapping and traumatic mind-mapping. Mind-mapping refers to your ability to map out the thoughts and feelings of another person. Traumatic mind-mapping is a collapse of your brain's normal mind mapping abilities that occurs when you are mind-mapping someone and what you see is terrible.

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173 I Am Badass: Loss, A Woman's Cycle, and Hope

173 I Am Badass: Loss, A Woman's Cycle, and Hope

Stephanie Duncan Smith joins me today to talk about her book, "Even After Everything: The Spiritual Practice of Knowing the Risks and Loving Anyway." Topics covered include: Stephanie's pregnancy loss...

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172 Spiritual and Religious Trauma with Dr. Hillary McBride

172 Spiritual and Religious Trauma with Dr. Hillary McBride

Dr. Hillary McBride talks about her new book titled, Holy Hurt: Understanding Spiritual Trauma and the Process of Healing. Topics covered include: our deep human need to belong, the inherent goodness ...

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171 Your Sexuality and Your Story: Linking Past to Present

171 Your Sexuality and Your Story: Linking Past to Present

I am joined today by author Jay Stringer to talk about sexual stuckness/difficulties/struggles. Healthy sexuality is deeply tied to the degree to which we have made sense of our story in our family of...

8 Huhti 202533min

170 Make Sense of Your Story: Dan Allender Interviews Adam

170 Make Sense of Your Story: Dan Allender Interviews Adam

Today's episode is different. Dan Allender takes over the podcast to interview me about my new book titled, Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything. Topics co...

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169 How to Experience the Kind Presence of God with John Eldredge

169 How to Experience the Kind Presence of God with John Eldredge

John Eldredge returns to the podcast to talk about his newest book titled, "Experience Jesus. Really." Topics covered include: how to live as an ordinary mystic (someone who experiences the sweet pres...

27 Tammi 202541min

168 Longing for Delight and Honoring Anger

168 Longing for Delight and Honoring Anger

I am joined today by my friend Gail Stucker who is a trauma-informed story coach. Gail generously shares a story about herself as an 8th grader. Topics we cover: taking your story seriously when you d...

13 Tammi 202540min

167 StoryWork: What It Is and Why It Matters with Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel

167 StoryWork: What It Is and Why It Matters with Dan Allender and Cathy Loerzel

You have a story and that story matters. Your story in your family of origin significantly affects the way you think, feel, and act in the world today. This is why Dan Allender says, "It is time to li...

6 Tammi 202531min

166 Why Your Marriage Feels The Way It Does

166 Why Your Marriage Feels The Way It Does

I am joined today by Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Steve Call to talk about the complexities of marriage relationships. Dan and Steve recently co-authored a book titled, "The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivat...

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