#60: The 5 Rules that Will Change Your Dating Life as a Gay or Bisexual Man

#60: The 5 Rules that Will Change Your Dating Life as a Gay or Bisexual Man

How come it seems SO difficult to find healthy and long-lasting love in the LGBTQ+ community?


Have you ever wondered what the steps are to finding that "dream" relationship? What it would feel like to have an incredible date that never ends?


Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about dating in the LGBTQ community. For many of you, the experience itself has been a negative one due to a multitude of different reasons (lack of commitment, self-esteem issues, casual mindset, hookup culture etc.) In this episode, you will learn to tackle your own personal beliefs around dating and how it can impact your dating life. You will learn about Danny's "5 Dating Rules" that will help you change your mindset and approach dating with more intentionality.


Have you ever stopped and asked yourself, "what would it feel like to find someone that is serious about building a life together?" If you have, what self-reflection have you done to unpack your thoughts and feelings around dating and how that could be impacting your ability to attract the right guy. This episode will provide you with some tangible steps you can take!


In the episode, you will learn:

  • Understanding confirmation bias and how it impacts your dating life
  • The 5 rules of dating as a Gay or Bisexual Man
  • Confronting your beliefs about dating in order to shift your mindset


What We Discuss:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:30 Dating quotes from previous clients
  • 04:40 If your going to be successful in dating, you have to change your perspective
  • 05:50 First dating rule: reflect on your positive dating experiences
  • 08:10 Understanding confirmation bias
  • 09:33 Second dating rule: re-evaluate your type
  • 14:15 Third dating rule: update your dating profile
  • 16:36 Fourth dating rule: commit to a minimum of three dates
  • 18:00 Fifth dating rule: Commit to the process, not the outcome


Resources:


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