
169. The mental load in relationships
Sustaining a relationship has a lot more to do with the division of domestic, emotional and physical labour. A massive component is the mental load - the additional energy that goes into organising, s...
13 Helmi 202439min

168. Do you really need closure?
The end of a relationship or a friendship can leave us with a lot of unanswered questions, especially when the split is sudden, out of the blue, and the other person is unresponsive. In other instance...
8 Helmi 202437min

167. 5 steps to build a life you love
A considerable question for those of us in our 20s is how do we create a good life? What does it mean to design a life we love and how exactly do we do that? In today's episode we break down five ways...
5 Helmi 202440min

166. Fantasy bonding - is it love or delusion?
Sometimes we become more attached to the idea of someone and their potential, than the reality of who they actually are. We begin to project our wants and desires on to them and ignore the red flags, ...
2 Helmi 202436min

165. The psychology of anger
Anger is one of our most primal emotions and yet we have no idea how to manage it. We suppress it, allowing it to rule our lives; we hide from it, we let it explode onto people who don't deserve our r...
30 Tammi 202436min

164. Dating and mental health in our 20s
Two of the most noteworthy elements of our 20s are dating and our experiences with mental health. They also interact - our mental health will influence how we date, how we deal with rejection, how we ...
26 Tammi 202444min

163. Travel burnout
Being able to travel and explore the world in our 20s is such a unique privilege, but sometimes we can overdo a good thing and hit a point of complete emotional, mental and physical exhaustion, causin...
23 Tammi 202440min

162. Why do I feel guilty all the time?
We experience chronic guilt towards a lot of things: guilt for resting, guilt for not resting, guilt for prioritising ourselves, guilt for being a bad friend, a bad partner, a bad student, for not des...
19 Tammi 202434min





















