The Tell Them Method - How To Stop Holding On To Emotional Baggage and Regret

“Some people are dreaming of success and others are waking up and making it happen.”You snooze your alarm, scarf down half of your breakfast and run out the door to make it to work on time. Sound familiar? The truth is that when we start our days like this, we are not as productive. But in this week’s episode, I give you practical tips on how to change that. 4 things you’re going to learn from this episode: How to be more productive at work? How to make mornings more purposeful? Why I wake up at 6am every day? What is decision fatigue and how can we fight it?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

31 Touko 201927min

In this weeks episode I sat down with international bestselling author of Sapiens, Homo Deus and 21 Lessons for the 21st Century, Yuval Harari.We covered so many interesting topics like how to manage expectations, the importance of boredom and what he believes the future of artificial intelligence is. He also shares with us his equation for happiness and he reveals why so many of us are addicted to being on our phones.We also dove into education and where he believes the job market will be 30 years from now. This episode is sure to challenge your perspective on certain topics!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

27 Touko 20191h 2min

In this era of social media and having an overload of information at our fingertips, it’s hard not to constantly compare yourself to others. It’s hard to see all of the vacation pictures, the couple pictures and everyone’s seemingly perfect lives on display.However, what we don’t always realize is that we’re comparing our behind the scenes to someone else’s highlight reel. People only publish things they want you to see and we need to remember that.I truly believe that comparison is the thief of joy and that’s why in today’s episode I give you 7 ways to stop comparing yourself to others and tips on how to define your own personal success.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

24 Touko 201931min

Often times we think that we cannot have success at work and success in our personal lives. We think that we have to sacrifice sleep in order to get ahead in life. We think we have to stay on our phones at all times to stay connected. But in this episode, one of the most influential people in media explains why that is not the case. Arianna Huffington reminds us all that 8 hours of sleep is just as important for our careers as 8 hours at the office and gives helpful tips to maintain a healthier work life balance.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Touko 201941min

In this episode, I give you the tools to create a stronger bond in your relationship.To foster a deeper connection in your relationship. To rebuild spark and excitement in your relationship. Most of us think doing date nights at restaurants or going to the movies is enough to keep a relationship exciting but a lot of the times it’s not.I break down 7 couples activities that are inexpensive and accessible to everyone that are scientifically proven to bring you closer to your partner. Me and my wife do all of these and I can’t wait for you all to try some of these too.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

17 Touko 201928min

In this week’s episode of On Purpose, Grown-ish star Francia Raisa opens up about what it was like growing up in Hollywood and how she’s been able to keep a level head by relying on her faith.She also shared her tips on overcoming rejection and staying grounded.You will be truly inspired after listening to this conversation!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

13 Touko 20191h 16min

In this new age of self-care, we so often claim anything that we do when we are stressed as self-care.But are we truly giving ourselves the self-care we need? Or are we just being self-indulgent?In this week’s episode, I break down the difference between self-care and self-indulgence and share a 3 part equation that will help you solve all of your problems.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10 Touko 201924min

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.I learned so much in this week's episode with psychiatrist, brain expert and ten-time New York Times bestselling author Dr. Daniel Amen. He walks us through the difference between the mind and the brain, teaches us how to get rid of ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) and teaches us how to train our brain to reach its maximum potential. He debunks quick fixes that provide temporary relief and goes over specific habits we can all implement in our daily lives in order to improve our mood and actually make it last.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Touko 20191h 24min