How to Be Awesome at Your Job4 Tammi 2024

925: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Feeling Guilty with Dr. Aziz Gazipura

Dr. Aziz Gazipura explains the dangers of people-pleasing tendencies and shares actionable steps for overcoming it.

— YOU’LL LEARN —

1) The massive costs of being a people-pleaser

2) How to not feel guilty when saying no

3) A surprising strategy to build your discomfort tolerance

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— ABOUT AZIZ —

Dr. Aziz is a clinical psychologist and one of the world's leading experts on social confidence. In 2011, Dr. Aziz started The Center For Social Confidence, which is dedicated to helping everyone break through their shyness and social anxiety.

Through confidence coaching, audio and video programs, podcasts, a detailed blog, and intensive weekend workshops, Dr. Aziz has helped thousands of people all over the world increase their confidence and lives out his mission: To help every person who is stuck in shyness liberate themselves to pursue the relationship, career, and life they have always dreamed of.

He lives in Portland, Oregon with his wife Candace and son Zaim.

• Book: Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself (site)

• Book: Less Nice, More You: Stop Hiding & Become The Most Bold, Authentic Version Of You Now

• Mini course: “5 Steps to Unleash Your Inner Confidence”

• Organization: Social Confidence Center

• Website: DrAziz.com

— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —

• Study: Effect of Pain Reprocessing Therapy vs Placebo and Usual Care for Patients With Chronic Back Pain - A Randomized Clinical Trial

• Book: Free to Focus: A Total Productivity System to Achieve More by Doing Less by Michael Hyatt

• Book: The Way Out: A Revolutionary, Scientifically Proven Approach to Healing Chronic Pain by Alan Gordon, Alon Ziv

• Previous episode: 830: Lessons Learned from the World’s Longest Scientific Study on Happiness with Dr. Robert Waldinger

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1171: How to Get Better Results through Better Questions with Dr. Marilee Adams

Dr. Marilee Adams shows you how to ask the questions that drive improvement and innovation. — YOU’LL LEARN — 1) How your inner questions shape your decisions and behavior 2) Why brainstorming often fa...

30 Heinä 43min

1170: How to Make Discipline Feel Easy and Achieve Your Ambitious Goals with Jia Jiang

Jia Jiang explains his four-step framework for making discipline and success easier.— YOU’LL LEARN — 1) The problem with hard discipline 2) How to make your goals feel easy and enjoyable 3) Two handy ...

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1169: Tapping into the Transformative Power of Sabbaticals with DJ DiDonna

DJ DiDonna makes the case for why taking more extended time off helps professionals get further in their careers–and shares tricks for actually snagging that time. — YOU’LL LEARN — 1) How to convince ...

23 Heinä 34min

1168: How to Thrive When You Don’t Know What’s Next with Simone Stolzoff

Simone Stolzoff shows you that it’s possible to turn uncertainty into your advantage. — YOU’LL LEARN — 1) How to build your uncertainty tolerance 2) What to ask when you face indecision3) Why curiosi...

20 Heinä 42min

1167: Mastering the Three Elements of Charisma with Olivia Fox Cabane

Olivia Fox Cabane reveals the behaviors and practices that help develop your personal charisma.— YOU’LL LEARN — 1) The number one myth surrounding charisma 2) How to amplify your presence in just a fe...

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5th Year - 626: Mastering the 2-Hour Job Search That Generates Dream Interviews with Steve Dalton

Steve Dalton details his systematic process for securing dream interviews.— YOU’LL LEARN — 1) How to generate 40 target employers in 40 minutes 2) Three effective ways to reach out to potential advoca...

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1166: Making Moments More Meaningful with Dr. Ian Bogost

Ian Bogost shares why everyday moments are the foundation of a gratifying life–at work and beyond.— YOU’LL LEARN — 1) Why small moments matter so much2) How dematerialization is hurting you–and what t...

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4th Year - 480: How to Become Ridiculously Likable with Vanessa Van Edwards

Researcher Vanessa Van Edwards explains what causes people to like one another and how to make great impressions.— YOU’LL LEARN — 1) Proven ways for making a fantastic first impression2) What builds a...

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