169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust)

169: Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use (Assumed vs Acquired Trust)

When a relationship is damaged by pornography use and dishonesty, many couples wonder if it's possible to actually fully rebuild trust again.

There are often lots of staggered or trickle disclosures, which caused a lot of damage to the trust.

So can it actually be rebuilt again?

The answer is yes.

But it requires a very specific approach and that's what I want to share with you in today's episode.

The more clarity you have about what steps to take and how to rebuild trust, the more you can focus on taking the right actions and start to see progress in your relationship.

For therapy with Sam:

I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

Click here for info to work with me directly.

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173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use

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172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back

172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back

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171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage

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170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography

170: 3 Step Framework to Solve Problems in Your Marriage and Overcome Pornography

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168: The Best Tool to End Fights Faster And Find Closure in Conversations

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