481 - Can You "Fix" Your Partner's Insecurities?
Today we're talking about insecurities, which all of us have in one way or another, and whose responsibility it is to alleviate them. A lot of us are unsure whether it's our own personal work to do or...
28 Touko 202455min
480 - Communication Hacks: Remastered
This week we have a throwback episode going back six years ago to when we discussed three powerful communication tools to strengthen your relationships: switchtracking, bids, and microscripts. We're g...
21 Touko 20241h 1min
479 - Grief, Breakups, and Hope for What Comes Next
This week we're talking about breaking up again, specifically about the process of grieving a breakup through the lens of the five stages of grief. Long relationships in particular can have difficult ...
14 Touko 20241h 10min
478 - “I’m a relationship anarchist, but no one knows what that is."
This week's Q&A episode is circling back to relationship anarchy and how to navigate it when most people either don't subscribe to it or don't even know what it is. If you want your question answered ...
10 Touko 202420min
477 - I Love You But I Don't Like You
This week, we're exploring the difference between loving someone and liking someone. We're specifically discussing how it is we can love someone but also not like being around them very much, and if o...
7 Touko 202459min
476 - "My monogamous partner fell in love with someone else."
This week's Q&A episode is tackling emotional and sexual exclusivity and navigating polyamory as someone mostly adjacent to it. Interested in having your question answered on one of our future Q&A epi...
3 Touko 202415min
475 - Is It Better to Settle in Relationships?
Today we're talking about what it means to "settle" in a relationship. We'll be discussing if it's okay to settle and what realistic expectations of a relationship should be, compromise, and whether o...
30 Huhti 20241h 1min
474 - "How can I know if sneakiarchy is happening in my relationship?"
This week we're tackling a question about sneaky hierarchy, aka sneakiarchy. We're talking about how to recognize it in future relationships, how to recognize when you might be creating it by accident...
26 Huhti 202422min
