047: Balance of Attraction: Simple Thoughts on Dating for Men and Women by Crew Spence with The Minimalists

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3515: Moving clutter from one spot to another might feel like progress, but Kerri Richardson reveals why this “Clutter Shuffle” is actually a form of avoidance. Whether it’s an emotional attachment, decision fatigue, or the illusion of organization, she offers practical steps to break the cycle, sorting with intention, finding true storage solutions, and journaling through resistance. Freeing yourself from clutter isn’t just about tidying up; it’s about clearing mental space and aligning your environment with the life you want. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/cluttershuffle/ Quotes to ponder: “It’s time to get off this merry-go-round because, frankly, it’s anything but merry.” “Out of sight is not out of mind with clutter. It’s always playing somewhere in the back of your mind, so be sure you only keep that which you love, need, or use.” “Holding space for and giving voice to your resistance is crucial in dealing with stubborn clutter.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Maalis 8min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3514: Staying informed without feeling overwhelmed is possible with the right approach. Nir Eyal shares strategies to filter out noise, focus on high-quality information, and take control of your media consumption. By applying these techniques, you can stay updated without sacrificing your mental well-being or productivity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/how-to-stay-informed-without-losing-your-mind/ Quotes to ponder: "You are what you consume, and consuming junk makes you feel like junk." "Too much information can actually make us less informed by overwhelming our ability to process and retain what matters." "If you don’t make time to think, you’ll always be reacting instead of reflecting." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Maalis 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3513: Leo Babauta explores the ways we create our own misery and how we can break free from it. By clinging to expectations, resisting discomfort, and dwelling on negative narratives, we amplify our suffering. Shifting our mindset, accepting reality, embracing uncertainty, and practicing gratitude can help us cultivate peace and joy instead. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/misery/ Quotes to ponder: "We create our own misery by wishing things were different, by fearing what might come, by clinging to expectations." "The truth is, reality is just as it is. Wishing it were different doesn’t help us, it only makes us unhappy." "Gratitude changes everything when we appreciate what’s in front of us, we no longer need things to be different." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Maalis 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3512: Stephen Warley explains why lifestyle design typically takes 18 months or longer, emphasizing the need to reframe your mindset, build new habits, and confront personal challenges. While the journey requires effort, the reward is a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life that maximizes your energy and potential. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lifeskillsthatmatter.com/about-lifestyle-design/ Quotes to ponder: "You may not like where you’ve ended up, but this is the life you’ve currently designed for yourself." "Your lifestyle is the sum of your habits and your decisions." "Either you are going to be stressed out for the rest of your life because you are not living and working in alignment with who you are or you can be stressed out for a couple of years building the life you’ve always wanted." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 Maalis 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3511: Kristen Butler shares how these practices transformed her life, offering actionable steps to break free from chronic stress and embrace a happier, healthier lifestyle. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed or just looking for ways to boost your well-being, these science-backed strategies can help you reset, recharge, and thrive. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://livehappy.com/5-effective-stress-relief-and-mindset-tools-that-really-work Quotes to ponder: "By consciously practicing deep breathing, you activate the parasympathetic nervous system, thereby guiding yourself back into your comfort zone where you feel more safe." "You can write your affirmations or you can use them as auto suggestions by listening to the recordings of affirmations during the day or before bed and reading your affirmations throughout the day." "Stepping outside, immersing yourself in sunshine, and breathing in the fresh air can have a transformative effect on your well-being." Episode references: Atlas of the Heart: https://www.amazon.com/Atlas-Heart-Meaningful-Connection-Experience/dp/0399592555 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Helmi 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3510: Colin Wright shares how this approach helped him avoid restrictive contracts, reassess priorities, and make more intentional choices. While not for everyone, this lifestyle experiment offers an alternative to the traditional long-term commitments that often dictate finances, relationships, and living situations. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://exilelifestyle.com/committing-commitments/ Quotes to ponder: “Think back to who you were and what you were doing with your life two years ago. Are you the same person with the same needs?” “If you want to give it a shot, do what you can to eliminate existing commitments from your life and don’t accept any new ones beyond a certain span of time. It’s that simple.” “This kind of lifestyle comes with limits, but they’re far less invasive than the limits you remove.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Helmi 8min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3509: Elizabeth Stacey Ellis shares a simple yet powerful 60-minute system to create the best day possible, every day. By identifying meaningful activities, committing to intentional time blocks, and granting yourself grace in the process, you can start each morning feeling energized, focused, and in control. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markfisherfitness.com/best-day-every-day-60-minutes/ Quotes to ponder: "You simply need a morning routine. This tool is popular among highly successful people, including Barack Obama, Anna Wintour, and Mark Zuckerberg." "Lean into the discomfort. It’s okay if this feels hard at first. Any big change requires a little elbow grease." "Remember that tending to yourself every single morning helps you to better serve others throughout your day. After all, you have to fill your cup first in order to fill that of others!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Helmi 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3508: Steve Pavlina introduces the CARVER method, a military-inspired framework that evaluates tasks based on six key factors: Criticality, Accessibility, Return, Vulnerability, Effect, and Recognizability. By assigning numerical values to each factor, you can create a clear prioritization system, ensuring that your time and energy are spent on the most impactful projects. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/05/how-to-prioritize/ Quotes to ponder: "By using a simple system like CARVER, you’ll know which projects are important enough to deserve your attention and which are, relatively speaking, a waste of your time and energy." "The point of CARVER is to select a reasonably intelligent project and then get into action. Don’t lose yourself in hours of analysis paralysis." "You want to make the greatest amount of progress towards your goals with the least amount of effort." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Helmi 13min