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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3466: Kylee Lessard explores Dr. Martin Seligman’s groundbreaking framework for flourishing, defined as thriving through fulfillment, meaningful tasks, and deeper connections. By focusing on the five pillars of well-being, Positive emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment (PERMA), she offers practical strategies to nurture a flourishing life. With reflective prompts and actionable tips, this guide empowers you to design a daily routine that fosters long-term happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ablueskymind.com/blog/what-is-flourishing Quotes to ponder: “To flourish is to find fulfillment in our lives, accomplishing meaningful and worthwhile tasks, and connecting with others at a deeper level.” “Other people are the best antidote to the 'downs' of life and the single most reliable 'up.'” “Meditation gives me this incredible base from which to flourish, just like mindful movement and nourishment of my body do.” Episode references: University of Pennsylvania Positive Psychology Center: https://ppc.sas.upenn.edu Braid Mission volunteer program: https://braidmission.org Flourish by Martin Seligman: https://www.amazon.com/Flourish-Visionary-Understanding-Happiness-Well-being/dp/1439190763 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

19 Tammi 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3465: Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui's reflections explore the exhausting cycle of struggling to prove one's worth and offer a gentle invitation to embrace self-compassion and contentment. Her perspective encourages a life lived in alignment with values rather than relentless striving, fostering a deeper sense of peace and purpose. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/tired-of-struggling/ Quotes to ponder: "Could we live gently with ourselves, pursuing a life we don’t need to escape from?" "We don’t have to prove we’re good enough; we already are." "Maybe the striving and hustling aren't what we truly need." Episode references: Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0804137382 Atlas of the Heart: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399592555 The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/dp/159285849X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

19 Tammi 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3464: Julie Morgenstern shares how embracing realistic time estimates transforms productivity and focus. By tracking how long tasks truly take, you can ditch wishful thinking, better prioritize, and achieve more while feeling less overwhelmed. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.juliemorgenstern.com/tips-tools-blog/2020/7/7/become-a-time-realist Quotes to ponder: "Things take as long as they take. If we ignore the truth, we may very well run out of time before we’ve even started on the most important work." "Once you know how long it takes you to do something, you can more easily find the room in your schedule to get it done." "You won’t have to be this detailed forever. After two weeks to a month of concerted effort, you’ll develop a keen sense of how much time tasks require." Episode references: Never Check E-mail in the Morning: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Check-E-Mail-Morning-Productivity/dp/0743250885 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Tammi 8min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3463: Renata Leo examines the pitfalls of being overly goal-oriented, revealing how it can lead to burnout and self-criticism. By learning to forgive herself and find joy in simply "being," she inspires a healthier, more balanced approach to personal growth and happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buffalosauceeverywhere.com/2019/09/18/learning-to-not-be-goal-obsessed/ Quotes to ponder: "Comparison is the thief of joy, and as I say, seeing all of my successful friends on Facebook makes me feel like an utter failure as I sit on my couch watching reruns of The Office." "Failure is inevitable, especially if you have a bunch of tiny, insignificant goals that you have no control over." "I’m learning to be comfortable with just being." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Tammi 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3462: Steve Pavlina explores the transformative process of emotional mastery, emphasizing how we can shift from being controlled by our emotions to harnessing them for personal growth. He offers practical insights to navigate intense feelings, cultivate self-awareness, and foster emotional resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/11/emotional-mastery/ Quotes to ponder: "Emotions are not the enemy; they are the raw energy we can use to create a meaningful life." "When we stop suppressing or indulging our emotions and instead observe and understand them, we unlock their transformative power." "Mastering your emotions isn’t about control, it’s about deep alignment with your inner truth." Episode references: Feeling Good: https://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-New-Mood-Therapy/dp/0380810336 The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Emotional Intelligence: https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than/dp/055338371X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Tammi 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3461: Angel Chernoff shares practical steps to navigate the emotional ruts that come with life's inevitable struggles. By embracing personal integrity, letting go of illusions, and flowing with unpredictability, you can heal, rediscover your path, and transform obstacles into opportunities for growth and fulfillment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2013/02/20/7-ways-to-stop-hurting-yourself/ Quotes to ponder: "Freedom lies in being bold. Use your head to listen to your soul." "The only thing you can do when it’s raining is let it rain, make the best of it, and make plans for a sunnier day." "Life delivers the experiences that are most helpful for your personal growth. How do you know it’s the experience you need? Because it’s the experience you’re having." Episode references: Oscar Wilde Quotes: https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/3565.Oscar_Wilde The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

15 Tammi 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3460: Sabrina shares her heartfelt journey to finding lasting joy, revealing the transformative power of gratitude. By shifting her focus from fleeting pleasures and external validation to appreciating life’s simple moments, she discovered a steady, inner source of happiness that transcends life's challenges. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buddingoptimist.com/find-joy/ Quotes to ponder: “You’re not a particular feeling I can put a finger on; you’re a state of being.” “As long as I have gratitude, I have you.” “I know now that you can exist even when I’m in pain this I will remember.” Episode references: The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X Thanks!: https://www.amazon.com/Thanks-Gratitude-Science-Robert-Emmons/dp/0547085737 The How of Happiness: https://www.amazon.com/How-Happiness-Approach-Getting-Life/dp/0143114956 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Tammi 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3459: Joshua Fields Millburn demystifies minimalism by sharing that it’s not about radical deprivation but intentional living. By shedding excess and questioning possessions, he finds freedom to focus on health, relationships, and growth. He also challenges the notion of "cool," redefining it as authenticity and meaningful contribution rather than material possessions. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.theminimalists.com/radical & http://www.theminimalists.com/cool Quotes to ponder: "Minimalism is a tool I use to get rid of unnecessary stuff and live a meaningful life a life filled with happiness, freedom, and conscious awareness." "I constantly question possessions: Do I still need this? When is the last time I used this? Could someone use this more than me?" "Being cool has nothing to do with the stuff I own and everything to do with the way I act, the way I treat other people, the way I contribute." Episode references: Goodbye, Things: https://www.amazon.com/Goodbye-Things-New-Japanese-Minimalism/dp/0393609030 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Tammi 10min