243: 5 Inspirations for Being in the Moment by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3892: Allison Carmen reflects on the powerful final words of journalist Steven Sotloff, using them as a call to live each day with deeper presence and gratitude. Through personal reflection and heartfelt conversation, she explores how adopting a practice of gratitude can help us reconnect with what matters most and find strength in the face of fear, grief, and uncertainty. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/living-life-to-the-fullest/ Quotes to ponder: "Everyone has two lives. A second one begins when you realize you only have one. Hug each other every day. Please know I am OK. Live your lives to the fullest and pray to be happy." "It is just a matter of allowing our gratitude to grant us perspective on what is important and what we do have." "With gratitude we change our hyper-focus on the things that are bothering us and we expand to see the entire vista of our lives." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Tammi 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3891: Shawna Scafe explores the deeper meaning of hygge, a Danish cultural concept rooted in comfort, connection, and presence, and contrasts it with the more utilitarian philosophy of minimalism. By examining how each approach shapes the way we live, gather, and value our belongings, she highlights how hygge invites us to find joy in the simple, shared moments of everyday life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/hygge-vs-minimalism/ Quotes to ponder: "Hygge is the invitation to gather, the beauty of the simple things, the heart of conversation, the details of hospitality." "Hygge has a priority to set time aside for simply being with one another in a relaxed setting." “The pleasure is found in living hygge, not curating it, in the experience of the journey, not owning the map.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Tammi 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3890: Nir Eyal challenges the popular belief that willpower is a limited resource and reveals how this mindset can sabotage our ability to stay disciplined. Backed by research from Carol Dweck and Michael Inzlicht, the article reframes willpower as an emotion that fluctuates and can be managed, not something we "run out" of. Shifting this perspective can help us build resilience, make better decisions, and stop using "lack of willpower" as an excuse to quit. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/about-willpower/ Quotes to ponder: "Believing we do [run out of willpower] makes us less likely to accomplish our goals, by providing a rationale to quit when we could otherwise persist." "Ego-depletion is essentially caused by self-defeating thoughts and not by any biological limitation." "Rather than telling ourselves we failed because we're somehow deficient, we should offer self-compassion by speaking to ourselves with kindness when we experience setbacks." Episode references: Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs: https://www.jsad.com Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences: https://www.pnas.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Tammi 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3889: Bonnie Brunet explores the emotional toll and illusion of connection fostered by Facebook, tracing her own 14-year journey from obsession to liberation. Her reflections challenge us to question the role of social media in our relationships and ask what we lose when we substitute meaningful communication for curated glimpses into each other's lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/how-social-is-social-media/ Quotes to ponder: "It’s crazy in retrospect to think about the impact that just photos and the little sentences that we choose to share about our lives can have on others." "In the 90s, we wouldn’t have known very much about our colleagues holidays, vacations, or important moments in general." "My journey without Facebook has just begun but I’m already a happier and simpler person than I remember." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Tammi 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3888: Angel Chernoff shares nine powerful strategies for cultivating a more optimistic mindset, emphasizing that optimism is a choice, not a fixed trait. From shifting your focus to what you can control, to surrounding yourself with positivity and living in the present, each practice is designed to help you build emotional resilience, reduce stress, and live more fully with hope and purpose. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/05/30/9-ways-to-become-an-optimist/ Quotes to ponder: "Optimism does not mean ignoring the problem entirely, it means understanding that setbacks are inevitable, often temporary, and that you have the skills and abilities to combat the challenges you face." "LOVE: It’s the greatest force in the universe. It’s a treasure that people would give anything for, yet it costs nothing to give and receive." "Every minute spent worrying guarantees nothing but less time to enjoy what life has to offer." Episode references: Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality: https://www.amazon.com/Awareness-Perils-Opportunities-Reality-Anthony/dp/0385249373 The Happiness Project: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Project-Aristotle-Generally-Reminded/dp/006158326X Full Catastrophe Living: https://www.amazon.com/Full-Catastrophe-Living-Revised-Illness/dp/0345536932 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Tammi 11min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3887: Shirley challenges the common guilt tied to ambition, reminding us that wanting more from life doesn't make us ungrateful, it makes us honest. By identifying guilt-based decisions and learning to appreciate without settling, she offers a compassionate roadmap to align your life with your deeper desires. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://daringliving.com/how-to-stop-feeling-guilty-for-wanting-more/ Quotes to ponder: "You might think it’s more responsible to feel guilty about wanting more in your life, but it’s not." "Be honest with yourself. Own the fact that you actually want something different than what you have right now." "This life is yours. And if you’re not satisfied with it, you get to make that decision to change it and take actions from it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Tammi 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3886: Cylon George challenges us to face the inevitability of death not to provoke fear, but to inspire urgency and purpose. By confronting our mortality, we’re reminded to stop wasting time on distractions and instead invest deeply in meaningful relationships and what truly matters. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.spirituallivingforbusypeople.com/death Quotes to ponder: “That’s the thing about life. It is fragile, precious, unpredictable, and each day is a gift, not a given right.” “Remember that you are dust and to dust you shall return.” “Contemplate your death daily and you will learn to stop wasting your time so you can focus on what’s truly important.” Episode references: On the Shortness of Life by Seneca: https://www.amazon.com/Shortness-Life-Penguin-Great-Ideas/dp/014101881X The Tail End by Tim Urban: https://waitbutwhy.com/2015/12/the-tail-end.html Death Clock: https://www.death-clock.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

22 Tammi 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3885: Chantalle Blikman offers practical, energizing strategies for breaking free from the paralyzing kind of laziness that stems from low motivation. By simplifying your goals, getting your body moving, and shifting your internal dialogue, you can generate the momentum needed to take action and feel more alive. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/5-ways-get-energized-motivated-feel-lazy/ Quotes to ponder: "Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action." "People feel motivated when they feel they have a good chance of success." "Exercise is the simplest way to overcome laziness." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Tammi 10min