104 - Best of Both Worlds

I have a viewer question from Mason and he wants me to read his comment and answer a question. So here goes: "Hi Sandman. I have been watching your videos for several months now and I think you make some very good points. It has definitely made me realize that monogamy - currently at least - serves women more than men. I am 24 years old and I have been in several long term relationships with several women. Looking back, I notice there was an imbalance with the effort put in to those relationships, it was as though I was expected to be a chef, taxi driver, a therapist and secretary - it was always left to me to arrange when to meet and the only times the girls would arrange anything was for a family event or something highly structured, like I was a child. Yet these girls couldn't even cook an egg or drive a vehicle and chose not to work. I never minded doing nice things, I actually enjoyed it, until I began feeling unappreciated, which is where being a nice guy in a monogamous relationship inevitably leads, currently at least. The more I did, the more was expected, the misandry treadmill. In one of the cases the girl was acting as though sex was a 'favor' she was doing for me. As a result of this I ended up cheating, which I somewhat regret. Another girl I dated considered herself to be very intelligent, except from my perspective she was incapable of creative or divergent thinking. She couldn't see the pitfalls of modern society and pointing them out would end with hostile arguments because she had a blind respect for authority and took too much pride in being right, like you point out in your video, female narcissism on the rise. She chose to end the relationship shortly after I sold my car and would scab drinks off of other men at bars while we were dating. I consider myself a good looking guy, yet I was barely ever told so by these women, because I believe once women have a man, they want to reduce his self-esteem instead of increasing it."

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