45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

Sarah earns more than Andrew. They’re unmarried but imagine a future together, or would like to. The problem is that Andrew’s existing money scripts (and $65k in debt) have him frozen—unable to spend but also unwilling to seriously plan a way out. She wants to spend money on things like vacations, but he doesn’t feel like he can afford to spend. To make things worse, he feels terrible about money in general because that’s how his dad raised him—his presence looms over the conversation. We need to cut out the negative judgments and help Sarah see things from Andrew’s perspective. Then we can talk to Andrew about the mindset to overcome his past—and current—money issues. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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144. “We make $245K. Why do I have to ask my wife for dinner money?”

144. “We make $245K. Why do I have to ask my wife for dinner money?”

Brad and Angie, 55 and 56, are each 10 years into a second marriage. With six adult children out of the house, they’re planning to buy an RV and tour the country in as little as two years. Carrying cr...

20 Helmi 20241h 6min

143. “I maxed out my credit cards on our $45k wedding. Are we broke?”

143. “I maxed out my credit cards on our $45k wedding. Are we broke?”

Amy and Tori are in their late 20s. They recently got married and honeymooned in Greece, racking up tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt. A brand new house, changing jobs, and influential ...

13 Helmi 20241h 21min

142. “We have a $2.3M net worth—but we cut coupons”

142. “We have a $2.3M net worth—but we cut coupons”

Brian is 56 and Rachel is 51 and they’re both lawyers. She’s lost thousands on a financial advisor and he can’t stop paying his daughter’s rent. Brian wants to retire soon, but the thought of losing h...

6 Helmi 20241h 27min

141. “We only have $2k in savings but she can’t stop going to the mall”

141. “We only have $2k in savings but she can’t stop going to the mall”

April and Kevin are in their mid thirties with two kids. They’ve been married for twelve years and Kevin recently came across a good book on finance—one which empowered him to learn more about their f...

30 Tammi 20241h 19min

140. “He put our $1M into one risky investment. Will we lose it all?” (Part 2)

140. “He put our $1M into one risky investment. Will we lose it all?” (Part 2)

Sandra, 46, and Brad, 48, return for Part 2 as we get our hands dirty with their incredible decision to invest $1,000,000—their entire net worth—into one oil operation. It’s paying out $20k a month ri...

23 Tammi 20241h 19min

139. “I’m afraid he’ll leave if I don’t stop stressing about the budget” (Part 1)

139. “I’m afraid he’ll leave if I don’t stop stressing about the budget” (Part 1)

Sandra is 46. Brad is 48. They have four children and are living a high lifestyle as a result of two generational income explosions tied to Brad’s work in the home lending industry. That variance, tho...

16 Tammi 20241h 6min

138. “My wife doesn’t want me to take a $720k job offer”

138. “My wife doesn’t want me to take a $720k job offer”

Mel and Babu are both 33 year-old doctors. Babu’s nearly done with his training, putting a huge decision in front of them about where to live and how much he’ll earn. The income numbers are staggering...

9 Tammi 20241h 21min

137. “MLMs, crypto, real estate—I can’t stop falling for get-rich-quick schemes” (Part 2)

137. “MLMs, crypto, real estate—I can’t stop falling for get-rich-quick schemes” (Part 2)

David, 33, and Halima, 37, return to follow-up on last week’s episode, where we learned about their debt, painful backgrounds, unrealistic expectations, and patterns of negative behavior with money. T...

2 Tammi 202450min

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