6. All or Nothing Thinking

6. All or Nothing Thinking

In today's episode we talk about all or nothing mindset. This is one of the most common things I see with my clients.

All or nothing mindset looks like, “I already messed up today, so I am not going to try for the rest of the day”, “I can’t start until i’m 100% sure I can do this”, and by counting progress as number of days without pornography instead of counting progress as number of urges processed.


In reality, quitting pornography is like learning any new skill. Failure does not keep us from quitting, it teaches us and helps us to become stronger as long as we learn from it.


You will love this episode.



Ready to commit to quitting pornography? I would love to be your coach. Visit this link to work with me: https://www.sarabrewer.com/workwithme

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183. Worthiness Wounds Part 1: The Conditioning

183. Worthiness Wounds Part 1: The Conditioning

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182. What to Do When Everyone Around You Takes a Shame Approach

182. What to Do When Everyone Around You Takes a Shame Approach

If you’re learning new skills related to your porn use, they’re changing your life, and you’re feeling the benefits, but other people don’t get it, you’re not alone. Many people find themselves in sit...

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181. Ask a Coach: The It’s-Not-Working Mentality

181. Ask a Coach: The It’s-Not-Working Mentality

Coach Kat is on the show this week to address the it’s-not-working mentality, where you feel stuck and like nothing has changed. Maybe it feels like you’ve been doing the work for months, only to keep...

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180. Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

180. Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

This week’s Ask a Coach question is one many of you can probably relate to: “Does the shame I feel after slipping up and viewing porn ever really go away?” While we can learn to move through shame in ...

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179. Ask a Coach: 5 Tips for Your Learn and Move On Worksheet

179. Ask a Coach: 5 Tips for Your Learn and Move On Worksheet

A common theme we see frequently in our Ask a Coach feature revolves around our Learn and Move On worksheet. Clients fill in their Learn and Move On before sending it in for feedback, and because it’s...

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178. Pornography, Sexual Health, Sexuality, & More: Q&A

178. Pornography, Sexual Health, Sexuality, & More: Q&A

We’re diving straight into listener questions for a special Q&A on healthy sexuality. We tackle a variety of thought-provoking questions, from a listener who feels disconnected from his sexuality and ...

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177. Ask a Coach: “What if Something Is Seriously Wrong with Me?”

177. Ask a Coach: “What if Something Is Seriously Wrong with Me?”

If you've been working on quitting porn for a long time but still keep viewing pornography, you might be asking, "What if there really is something wrong with me?" There are a few things we need to un...

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Q&A Episode: Send in Your Questions!

Q&A Episode: Send in Your Questions!

I am doing a bonus Q&A episode in a couple of weeks! If you have questions about previous episodes around healthy sexuality, porn panic, masturbation, healthy, sexuality, etc. send them to support@sar...

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