186. Working Backwards

186. Working Backwards

The working backwards process is all about figuring out what you’re buffering from. The value lies in going further back than you might typically be used to, to get to the root of why you self-sabotaged. By uncovering the root cause of your self-sabotage, you unlock the keys to building lasting change.


I walk you through the keys to using the working backwards process effectively, and share an example from my own life of how I use this technique to understand myself better and replace self-judgment with self-compassion.



Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.centerforovercomingpornography.com/blog/working-backwards

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42. Post-Mission Porn Use

42. Post-Mission Porn Use

I share the lessons I’ve learned in my work helping returning missionaries who struggle with porn use. I’m showing you why returning missionaries often struggle with porn, and I’m listing 8 things tha...

1 Marras 202120min

41. Present vs. Future Desire

41. Present vs. Future Desire

Discover how to give less attention to your present desires, so you can fulfill your future desire of overcoming pornography for good. So many people want to quit porn because they’ve been told to by ...

25 Loka 202122min

40. Compound Effect

40. Compound Effect

This week I'm showing you why an all-or-nothing mindset stagnates your progress, and how minuscule improvements over time are more powerful than you might think. You don’t have to be perfect. You just...

18 Loka 202119min

39. Resist, React, and Allow

39. Resist, React, and Allow

This week, I lay out the 3 things we can do when we feel an urge. I’m showing you how two of those options have you either acting outside of your value system, or furthering you from where you ultimat...

11 Loka 202120min

38. Sexual Urges Are Not From Satan

38. Sexual Urges Are Not From Satan

I lay out the 3 biggest problems with believing Satan is in charge of your sexual urges. Your urges aren’t dangerous or evil, and trying to overcome porn with this framework is not effective, so I’m s...

4 Loka 202127min

37. Shame 2.0

37. Shame 2.0

I outline some shame-inducing thoughts about porn that you might be believing right now, but that simply aren’t facts. For so many people, shame is the root of their porn use, and I’m inviting you to ...

27 Syys 202125min

36. Lower vs. Higher Brain

36. Lower vs. Higher Brain

Discover the difference between your lower brain and your higher brain, and how the two of them interact. Your lower brain seems powerful, but it’s nothing compared to your higher brain, and I’m showi...

20 Syys 202123min

35. Why We Desire

35. Why We Desire

Discover exactly what is going on in your brain when you desire porn. Contrary to what you might believe, wanting to watch porn doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with your brain, and just because y...

13 Syys 202122min

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