#308: Destigmatizing Self-Pleasure: A Holistic Path to Sexual Optimization with Dr. Saida Désilets

In today's episode, we're joined by a remarkable guest, Dr. Saida Désilets, a body philosopher, psychologist, and sexuality expert who empowers people to reclaim their sexual sovereignty. Together, we embark on an illuminating journey to explore the profound connection between sexuality and vitality as we age, addressing common limiting beliefs and introducing groundbreaking concepts like relaxed arousal and self-touch as essentials for enhancing overall well-being. What We discuss: Dr. Saida's Background and Body Philosophy ... 00:06:24 The Importance of Sexuality for Longevity ... 00:07:53 Dr. Saida's Origin Story: Connection to Erotic Aliveness ... 00:09:32 Development of the Desilets Method ... 00:12:00 Challenges of Menopause and Reframing Aging ... 00:25:19 Breaking Negative Beliefs for Healthier Aging ... 00:28:58 Creating a Relationship with Self and Pleasure ... 00:32:22 The Concept of Relaxed Arousal ... 00:34:11 Destigmatizing Self Pleasure and Societal Impact ... 00:40:00 Dr. Saida on Oxytocin and Self-Touch ... 00:51:48 Vibrators versus Natural Stimulation ... 00:53:27 Postpartum Sexuality Challenges ... 01:00:26 Introduction to Inanna Women and Serum Benefits ... 01:07:28 Dr. Saida's Work in South Africa on Sexual Health ... 01:13:10 Our Amazing Sponsors: Manukora - Supports immunity and gut health with high levels of antioxidants and prebiotics and MGO powerful antimicrobial compounds. 70% of the antioxidants found in Manukora honey are not found in any other honey! Head to manukora.com/NATNIDDAM to get $25 off the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar, 5 honey travel sticks, a wooden spoon, and a guidebook! Wizard Sciences (Neural Rx) - Neural Rx isn't just about a quick boost. It's designed to protect your brain long-term. With C60 (an antioxidant) and anti-inflammatory benefits, it combats oxidative stress and helps keep those brain cells healthy and happy. Plus, it supports mitochondrial efficiency, meaning more energy and focus for the long haul. Use code NAT15 at checkout to get 15% off your purchase. Visit wizardsciences.com. Just Thrive - 99% of probiotics on the market die in your stomach before they even reach your gut. Just Thrive is the only probiotic guaranteed to arrive 100% alive where you need it most. Visit JustThriveHealth.com and use code NAT20 for 20% off your first 90 day bottle. Nat's links: YouTube Channel Join My Membership Community Sign up for My Newsletter Instagram Facebook Group