Thoughts Matter

Thoughts Matter

When I was young, the only thing I could control was my thoughts. The one thing that could not be destroyed by others was my mind. So, a small part of me ‘the survivor in me’ thought about what was beautiful to me. I began to notice the colour of the trees, or the light in the sky. I would focus on that and see the beauty in it. Over time, hope emerged and I began to feel a little more positive . As #csa Survivors, the only thing we can control at times is our thoughts. Have a lis...

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Survivor Interview: John Comerford

Survivor Interview: John Comerford

Meet John Comerford Survivor. Mental Health Ambassador. Author John was abused in a catholic school beginning when he was 11 years old. His abuser was a catholic brother who was later found to have be...

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Blog: Telling Someone

Blog: Telling Someone

When is the right time to disclose what happened to you as a child? There is no one answer to this. Disclosing childhood sexual abuse is deeply personal, and the “right time” should not be determined ...

25 Marras 20255min

Q&A Session: November 2025

Q&A Session: November 2025

Every month we provide answers to YOUR questions. Yes we do read them, so please reach out to contactus@handingtheshameback.org, we want to help you! If you have a burning question, we may have an ans...

20 Marras 202513min

Survivor Interview: Dean Clarkson

Survivor Interview: Dean Clarkson

Meet Dean Clarkson Survivor. Trail Blazer. Founder. Father. Dean was 6 years old when he was first abused by an older boy who isolated him while playing a game. He never saw him again after that, but ...

18 Marras 202549min

Tips for Survivors: Survivors and Sleep

Tips for Survivors: Survivors and Sleep

It is beyond important for everyone to get enough sleep. For survivors it is essential. Sleep is where the mind can relax, unwind and rest. We keep our minds busy with unresolved trauma and anxiety, s...

11 Marras 20256min

Survivor Interview: Tracy Lee

Survivor Interview: Tracy Lee

Tracy Lee Author. Activist. Lived experience CSA victim. Tracy was the eldest of 4 children and the only girl. Her mother was 17 years old when she had her. She was abused by her father from the age o...

4 Marras 202545min

Blog: Overthinking

Blog: Overthinking

I believe that overthinking is connected to hypervigilance and is part of a post trauma response. For many survivors, overthinking became second nature, as you had no control over what was happening t...

28 Loka 20255min

Survivor Interview: Keith Williams

Survivor Interview: Keith Williams

Keith Williams Survivor Keith was 7 years old when the abuse began by an older brother, this went on till he was 12 years of age, at which point Keith believes he aged out. The coercive control and ma...

21 Loka 202544min

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