5 Simple Steps to Stopping your Anxious Attachment Cycle

5 Simple Steps to Stopping your Anxious Attachment Cycle

5 Steps to stop this cycle

  1. You have to become an observer of your thoughts and feelings. What thoughts are you thinking, how do they make you feel?
  2. You have to grow your capacity to feel the intense emotions without taking action. This looks like naming the feeling in your body, where does it sit, how does it feel, while acknowledging how uncomfortable it is to sit with these feelings.
  3. You have to grow your capacity to feel the urgency to react and know that you are already safe and you can process these emotions before you react. This looks like practicing thoughts of “I am safe right now, my anxious attachment is triggered but I am safe, I feel the urgency and I do not have to do anything yet”
  4. You have to learn how to feel urgency and decide to pause
  5. You have to learn to give yourself compassion and love in this exact moment. This looks like acknowledging your anxious attachment has been triggered, validating your feelings because they are real for you right now in this moment and still deciding to pause and feel them. Creating safety with yourself. Letting yourself know that you are capable of feeling these overwhelming emotions and creating trust with yourself.

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