Episode 12: I Don't Negotiate, Except That I Do

Episode 12: I Don't Negotiate, Except That I Do

My name is Sasha and I am a problem behavior causer. As a parent and a teacher, I have caused increases in problem behaviors. This happens because I negotiate, I give in, or I give attention. And guess what? This works for me in the moment. Negotiating or giving in gets that meltdown or negative behavior to stop. That’s what I want. I want that behavior to stop. But it does something else too - it teaches that child that negative behaviors result in something awesome. So they keep at it. Let’s change this contingency. In this episode, learn how to look to a long term instead of short term solution for behavior change. Negotiating or giving in may work in the moment but it doesn’t teach a positive alternative way for your child to communicate his wants and needs. It doesn’t promote long term success. I share specific strategies to respond, not react when behavior episodes occur and how to apply this to your everyday life.


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Episode 377: We Talk About Student Regulation but Not Enough About Teacher Regulation

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Episode 376: Most Classroom Reward Systems Accidentally Teach the Wrong Things

Episode 376: Most Classroom Reward Systems Accidentally Teach the Wrong Things

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Episode 375: Generalization Is the Real Goal — And We Almost Never Plan for It

Episode 375: Generalization Is the Real Goal — And We Almost Never Plan for It

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Episode 374: Paraprofessionals Are the Most Underutilized Resource in Your Classroom

Episode 374: Paraprofessionals Are the Most Underutilized Resource in Your Classroom

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Episode 373: IEP Goals Are Often Written to Be Achieved, Not to Be Meaningful

Episode 373: IEP Goals Are Often Written to Be Achieved, Not to Be Meaningful

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Episode 372: Sensory Bins and Sensory Diets Are Wildly Misunderstood

Episode 372: Sensory Bins and Sensory Diets Are Wildly Misunderstood

Sensory break has become a catch-all phrase we use when we're not sure what else to do - and that's a problem. In this episode, we're separating sensory-seeking behavior from escape behavior, talking ...

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Episode 371: Parent Communication is Broken in Most Special Ed Programs

Episode 371: Parent Communication is Broken in Most Special Ed Programs

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Episode 370: We Spend Too Much Time on Behavior Plans and Not Enough on Skill Building

Episode 370: We Spend Too Much Time on Behavior Plans and Not Enough on Skill Building

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