The Great Lesbian Divide: Butch vs Femme ft. Pkat and Haviah Mighty

The Great Lesbian Divide: Butch vs Femme ft. Pkat and Haviah Mighty

What does it really mean to be a lesbian? Is it a vibe? A gender? A political stance? We’re diving headfirst into the evolution of lesbian identity—breaking down butch and femme history, masculinity, queerness, and what it truly means to de-center men (spoiler: it’s liberating). With three wildly different lesbians at the table - Haviah, Pkat, and Karbon - we’re serving history, academic drama, and personal hot takes. It’s intellectual, it’s unhinged, and it’s very, very gay. Buckle up, baby dykes.

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00:00 intro
05:18 the lesbian identity
12:17 the masculine/feminine dilemma
24:52 discovery of lesbianism
38:02 the lesbian sub-identities
50:48 white vs bipoc lesbians
01:05:46 is lesbian a queer identity?
01:13:37 femmes don't get enough credit
01:25:11 do mascs get more dates?


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